ABOUT ME:

I don't initiate contact. If you initiate contact with me, please do so with as much substance and length as I've put on this post.

If I receive a substandard message or a message which contains few words I can't promise that I'll reply.

I've been away and out of commission for 3/4 of the past year. I'm now ready to dip my toe back in the water and see what's out there.

I'm a writer and soon-to-be author (hopefully). One of my passions is cooking. I have a natural love for cooking. I can't bake, though.

My recent obsessions are with dry rubs. I've recently created a Cajun mix, Jerk mix and Mexican BBQ mix.

I briefly trained as a chef, which means that I'm a whizz in the kitchen! Wouldn't say that I'm a fully-fledged chef, but I know enough to get by and not starve to death or get food poisoning... and die.

I'm a deep thinker. I'm spiritual (NOT religious) and believe in the power of Chi. I believe in ghosts, other worlds, multiverses, and dimensions. I'm into meditation and self-improvement and self analysis. I'm a free-thinker and tend to think independently from the masses. I naturally deviate from convention.

Humans are pack animals, this usually influences their way of thinking and giving opinions. The majority of people say things and think in a way that appeals to crowds.

I am not like that.

I'm not a people person. I'm misanthropic. I can't stress that enough. I tend to connect better with "weird" people and people who deviate from "normality."

I don't really care about distance. I mean, let's be honest, the chance of meeting a compatible soul is improbable as it is, if you restrict it by means of geography and location, the "improbable" becomes the "impossible". Besides, it's 2023, not 1723. Distances can be bridged with the aid of heavy machinery.

It takes a while to properly forge a strong relationship: It requires pillars of respect, trust, honesty, compatibility, and communication. None of those things come easily or without dedication, conviction, and time.

I'm a sapiosexual as well as a demisexual. I find intelligence very, very hot! Saying that, I'm not necessarily looking for a woman who is in MENSA. Intelligence comes in all shapes of sizes.

I require a mental, emotional, and spiritual bond before I can even think of developing a dynamic.

If you come at me with an initial message consisting of nothing but a "Hey", "Hi", "Howdy", "Heyo" or an alternative, I will most probably ignore you.

I'm an introvert. I'm private and I don't like being the centre of attention. In fact, I like to keep as far back from people and the spotlight as possible.

I'm a geek. Always have been, always will be. Back in the 80s and 90s there was much more chance of me being in the company of my Amiga, Spectrum, Master System, Mega Drive and Super Nintendo than a human being.

I love "Star Wars", "Buffy the Vampire Slayer", "MCU" and "Harry Potter".

I'm not a social media person.

My communication method of choice is emails. With emails, you're able to convey mass amounts of information and details without interruption, therefore making the "getting to know you" process relatively quick.

I'm deep, introspective, pensive, and morose. I feel more at ease and happiest when I'm alone. I barely tolerate people.

Movies: Fright Night 1 & 2, The Lost Boys, Barefoot in the park, Breakfast at Tiffany's, My Fair Lady, Casablanca, Jerry Maguire, Serendipity, Say Anything, Almost Famous, Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's day off, Weird Science, Elvira: Mistress of the dark, Elvira: Haunted Hills, Dirty Dancing, The Big Sick, Star Wars (The original trilogy), Firefly, Shadow of the Vampire, Interview with the Vampire, Dracula (1931).

Television: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, It's Always sunny in Philadelphia, Wednesday, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Sex and the City, Family Guy, The Simpsons, Scrubs. South Park.

Author/Writer: Jane Austen, Edgar Allen Poe, Bram Stoker, The Bronte Sisters, Emily Dickinson.

Music: The Smiths, The Cure, AC/DC

ABOUT ME: (Kink)

My form of Dominance is one of psychology.

It's my belief that before you can control a body or be in a position to take control over a body, you must first take control of the mind:

I want to know how you think, I want to know how your mind works, what you love, what you like, what you hate, and what you dislike. I want to know about your formative years, your upbringing, your parents, your family, etc.

As far as kink goes, I want to know about your experience as well as your dream dynamic. I want to know what turns you on, what your limits are and how willing you are to expand your horizons and how adaptive you are, etc.

A good relationship is all about growing together. It's all about learning and maturing and discovering new kinks as one entity, it's also about cultivating existing kinks.

This dynamic will be a living, breathing organism. It'll grow and develop and mature. It will be 24/7. It'll be all consuming, and it will be a life choice. A life lived together. Forever.

At work, you will be my submissive. At the supermarket and at the mall and out in public, you will be owned by me. Your every breath will contain a whisper that I own. Every thought will contain a note that I control.

It will be all-encompassing.

I want a relationship based on TPE. I'm not into "keeping it in the bedroom/behind closed doors", as that sounds too much like roleplay with an on and off switch.

You will learn from me, you will be taught, I will sculpt and mould and nurture you and train you to be the greatest version of yourself that you can be.

I'll listen. I'll be your coach. I'll be your teacher, your mentor, your confidant, your protector as well as your best friend.

I can not stress this enough. For a D/s dynamic to work, it has to be built on friendship. There must be unbreakable trust and respect and communication, and compatibility. Every cylinder must be firing

We will be a team. We will listen, talk, laugh, share and learn from the other. Our bond will be stronger than any metal or element known to God or man.

This isn't an easy connection to develop. It takes honesty, trust, communication, and absolute dedication and faith. Come into this half-hearted, and it will not work.

My kinks: Watersports, psychological Dominance, fiscal Domination, Goth, taboo, skull-fucking, anal, CNC, rape play, bimbofication, food control, body modification, behaviour modification, body modification, body writing, deepthroat, TPE, chains, leather, outfits, DP (with dildos, etc), toys, edging, Vampirism (Hematolagnia), tasks.

Hard limits: Poly and scat.

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