To those seeking similar, I'm always seemingly on the hunt for my forever sub, and would love to meet her someday.

Who am I?

My name is Sarge, but my real name is much less interesting, but will be provided to you if you wanna know it later down the line. I live in Southern Ontario, Canada and weigh about 205-210 at 6Ft flat. Normally, when my work schedule and workout routine let me have free time, I'm often found reading, writing, cooking, playing videogames, among other interests. Quite often, as what you will find, is that if I have free time, I will gladly spend it with my sub, then, follow it up with other interests. You will also find, which should surprise nobody on this site, that I am quite kinky. I no longer write on here, but I still write erotica often, and that may come up as we talk. My post says online, and I am looking for an online experience mostly, but bonus points if your local, or at least in the general area to southern Ontario, Canada.

I've been a Dominant for about 15 years off and on, I would by no means say that I am an expert in it, however, I have enough of a background where I can adapt and learn on the fly with most subs.

AS A PREWARNING, to any potential submissive's that wish to choose me, I am looking for a LONG TERM commitment, obviously things may or may not work out that way, but it is my end goal, to find my "Forever Sub". I will not expect this of you in our first encounters however, knowing that this is a huge commitment and it takes time to find the right person.

In regards to my style of Domination, I will am a little more laid back and reserved on most occasions, more relaxed, as I typically enjoy having good conversations with my sub on the daily until we build up to our impending session, be it that night, or a few nights from then. That said, my rules, although more relaxed are more strictly kept to, my expectation is that if you have less rules and a more, "relaxed" schedule, then you are 100% locked into them, and breaking them should come with... heavy consequences, something of which we can discuss as we get into how we want to address punishments and the like.

What is expected from you?

I'm quite flexible in most of my expectations as D/s is a two-way street and I typically try to accommodate both of our likes without outright killing one of our biggest kinks.

That said, my biggest rule and expectation is that you give me full control of your orgasms. It doesn't have to be immediately, but quite early into our feeling out process.

I don’t mind if you’re experienced or not, the ability to communicate what you want, what you like, and what you don’t, is far more important (and if your unaware of what you want, or don't know how to convey that information, then telling me is best).

Most importantly I'm looking for a sub with personality. You might be goofy, you might be sarcastic, you might even be a little brat, all are welcome.

Photos & Video

While I do like to be able to see the obedience of a sub, and I do have a preference for at least some pictures, this is very much up to you, and only when you feel as though you can trust me. As should always be the case: no pictures would be shared or kept whatsoever, unless you wanted to go down that path. That said, no pictures means that your explanations and reports must be well said/written. If I cannot see, then I expect you to paint a vivid picture in my mind

Tangible details

Age isn't a primary concern outside of the obvious, 18 I would say that if your within the age of 18 to 32 would be preferred, I also won't outright refuse a sub who's older than me. As for time zone, this is more of the core issue, I have no issue with you being from any time zone however it is important to note that as of the date of this posting, I work Tuesday-Saturday from 3pm to 11pm, plus time for travel, during work I will be mostly unavailable, but I've been known to sneak a text out here and there. I am from the Eastern Time Zone, so any perspective submissive "should" be around that time zone.

^{(at the current time of this posting, my job just got a whole lot easier, and I will likely be able to message you during work hours, save for moments of busyness occasionally or moments where I have spotty internet.})

Communication

This is everything to me. People are busy, I understand that as I am too. We don’t necessarily need to chat every day, but frequent communication is a must. So Kik, WhatsApp, Discord or some other messenger is needed in due course (I prefer Discord personally but will adapt to your app of choice). And in communication, honesty is key, both in giving feedback and in making realistic commitments.

My Likes, dislikes and limits.

Most of these are ever flowing, but my likes are pretty set. My dislikes and limits are set from there ends but have things added all the time, feel free to tell me whenever you want something locked out of our play sessions. I typically don't even like talking about my likes other then orgasm denial, as most of my likes are not necessities for play. Just note and do not be afraid if you see something in my likes that your not a fan of, remember honesty is key, so telling me these things in the beginning are perfectly fine to establish what our set of rules and kinks we use.

Likes:

Orgasm Control, Clothing Control, Edge play, Light Pain and Humiliation, Predicament Play, exhibition, Mental play (convincing you that you're not going to cum when you have permission, that kind of thing.)

These kinks are not off the table, but not something I'll order unless you want to get into it:

DDLG, hard pain

Limits, something I'll never order from you:

Scat, blood, lasting damage, illegal, family, social damage.

Final Thoughts:

Those looking to contact me should do so via private message, I check in to here quite regularly and have the app on my phone, so I should get a buzz if you message me on here.

That said, Tell me a bit about yourself, what your expectations are, your age, general time zone, your likes, your dislikes. It doesn’t have to be a novel, but it should be more than just “hi”.