Hi! I’m a 42/m, Daddy and sadist. I’m looking for a good girl for an online relationship, or if you’re local to me I’m open to irl. Local is about an hour south of St. Louis.

What I’m looking for: First off I’m not a fan of bratting. I want someone very eager to please, preferably due to a service sub or beta mindset. I don’t expect submission right away, that is a gift for me to earn as we get to know each other but once I do earn it I expect devotion. A mental and physical need for me and for my approval. You will have time and the desire to talk to me throughout the day, every day. I don’t just want kink, I want friendship and to be the authority figure you come to for comfort and validation.

Age range should be 25 , if you are slightly below that I will give you a chance to prove your maturity. Speaking of maturity, I am not interested in littles, nor age regression. When I describe myself as a Daddy it is because of my love of being a supportive authority, not to imply I’m looking for ddlg.

I am a visual person. You should be ok with and even highly enjoy sending pics and videos. I am willing to do the same. Privacy editing such as not showing face is absolutely fine plus I will never save anything sent to me without consent to do so.

A little about me: I live in the CST time zone but I work something of an overnight schedule so my waking hours can be odd. I’m a bit of a nerd. I play PC games, mostly survival crafting and shooters. I read a LOT, love fantasy novels and my guilty pleasure is LitRPG books. I play D&D on the rare occasion schedules in the friend group allow it. I have dogs that are spoiled rotten. Physically I am imposing. I am a big guy, tall, chubby, broad shoulders, tattoos and a beard.

Potential deal breakers: I am married in a ENM. She knows I need a submissive and just asks to be kept out of the loop. Some might distrust that explanation but it is what it is. I also have an online sub. She’s been mine for a little over a year now. She has had tremendous personal growth and finds herself very busy lately, too busy to properly sub for me. I also think it’s safe to say and fair to say that she is slowly transitioning away from needing to sub and is instead more of a friend to me. She has encouraged me to reach out in search of someone that can give me more time, especially if I can find a irl sub. She also has a cuckquean kink so it works for her in that too. You would be introduced to her after it is clear we vibe well. She and I used to have a post that she wrote looking for a sub to join us. I found that what few responses we got were more interested in meeting and interacting with her and not with us together or me alone. This post is an attempt at a different approach.

Kinks: orgasm control/denial, degradation/humiliation, tpe, pain, cnc, fluids (spitting, piss). Probably lots more and I’m pretty flexible on them. Overall as long as I feel submission and devotion from my sub the specific kinks don’t matter as much

Limits: The usual most people have…illegal, underage, scat, vomit

I think that’s about it for now. I hope to hear from you soon.