Bit of a long post here, but the more information the better right?

I'm looking for someone who enjoys being tied up, someone who wants to relinquish control for a bit, forget about their daily life and just enjoy the moment. Whether you want to try it for the first time, are tired of doing it yourself and not enjoying the full experience, or have a fantasy you want to explore, I want to help you get proper enjoyment out of it, whether it be sexual pleasure or simply some mental relief. This can either be a one time thing if it's something you just want to experience, or can turn into something long term or more if you find that you enjoy it.

Shibari is a fun and relaxing way to both enjoy the pleasure and relief of submissiveness while also displaying the beauty of the natural body. Exact specifics will of course be discussed later on, if we both feel it's a good fit for each other.

Of course, there is a large amount of trust required to commit to something like this, and I completely understand that. This isn't something where you let a stranger do things he said online, there are a lot more issues if things don't go as promised. I want you to feel safe at all times, unless you're into that kind of stuff, and know that I would never violate that trust. A connection of this type takes time, and I don't expect most people to agree to anything immediately. I will of course answer any questions you might have, and be as straightforward as possible, this is all about trust after all.

Here's some basis things about me to help get this ball rolling and set a base layer of trust. I'm a tall, educated, straight white male. I've got an average build, but I tone down very easily if I have time to. I have no debt, own my own place and am working on a masters degree. I only connect with one person at a time so you will get all of my attention. I set the location for Chicago and Milwaukee since I am located directly between them, I have no problems traveling to either of them or slightly further if there's a strong connection. I can also host down the line if necessary, traveling to a stranger's for this type of thing right away is incredibly risky after all.

I've been into bondage for over a decade, so I like to think I am quite well versed with things and can do just about anything you would like. I enjoy both the physical and mental elements to it, the sight of a woman meticulously tied and on display is truly a marvel to behold, and the level of trust and intimacy involved to relinquish total control just ticks all the boxes.

If you think the idea is appealing, we can talk things over, get to know each other and what we like, and slowly build up towards something, and if you decide you are no longer interested later on, or just want to talk about things with no plans of ever committing to it, that's perfectly fine. This is a welcoming and safe community, with boundaries to keep things from going bad, and I intend to maintain that.

I ask for just a quick 'About you' if you decide to message me. What are you looking for from me, are you in the area, and any experience you may or may not have.

Thanks for reading it all, if we talk that's great, if not, stay kinky and stay safe.