Hello,

I'm a cis femme lesbian, 5'5'', 135 pounds, and looking for a female domme or domme-leaning switch ideally aged 28 for a genuine relationship with as much kink involvement as we feel would make our relationship great though I would definitely enjoy heavy kink in the bedroom! To make it clear, I am looking for someone who can be my life partner first and then my play partner second (though this can be a very close second!). I am monogamous.

I am located in California and cannot leave for the time being for various reasons and so would like someone that can eventually relocate to me at least until the end of the decade. I am open to moving somewhere else in the future even internationally.

Hard limits: blood/knife/needle play, toilet play (scat, water sports), extreme breath play, fisting

I love discipline, control, power play, and may need a little forced submission from time to time as I am very dominant in my professional life, which can bleed into my private life, but it feeds and fills my submissive soul to retract that dominance and submit to my Domme and give her control. I especially like spanking as punishments (though not when I'm actually receiving them as punishment!) and enjoy both loving, gentle sex and rough sex that leaves me walking weird.

I would love to explore CNC and free use at home with the right person, as well, and also explore other kinks that my partner may really enjoy. I love seeing my partner happy and enjoying herself. I can switch or not depending on my partner's preference.

A little concept that has always been in the back of my mind and is absolutely not a need for me but just a light and fun daydream is a woman that loves to cook and do something artsy or work on cars/motorcycles or any kind of whimsical hobbyist things in her free time that can then turn around and dominate me heavily. I am financially secure and am open to taking the lion's share of providing financially to allow for my future love to work less and spend more time dabbling in her passions for fun but am not here to be someone's ATM and will shut that down quick.

DM me if what you read interests you ^{-^}