Dating in 2023 was hard, I can only imagine what it looks like in 2024 but here we go. I am putting myself back out there and trying to find my person.

I am looking for that love that some people only talk or dream about. The sort of love that you are on the phone for hours talking to each other or you video chat with each other and fall asleep. You wake up confused and in a haze only to realize you fell asleep, but are glad that each other is still there. I want the sort of love that almost seems as if it is made up but realistically can happen if two people truly want it. I am a Hopeless Romantic, and I am sure you are out there trying to find me, too. We both have histories, but it has made us who we are and pushed us to get to this point in life. Heartbreak and pain, we've been reborn like a Phoenix and rise above whatever our past it. We never forget where we came from, but we use it together to form an undeniable, passionate bond that is more than just lust or desire. We are best friends, partners, equals, and in this together. Love. Life. Happiness. Laughter. Trust. Communication. Honesty. These are the core principles of what we build. Does this sound like what you seek out? Give me a chance. Hear me out. Get to know who I am, and what makes me the person I am today. Pro-LGBTQ . Kinky. Liberal. Open Minded. Geeky.

Me - 38. Male. Daddy Dom from Cleveland, Ohio. While my age may be older than many, my experiences are not that of someone of my age. I still cherish things like being silly, goofy, staying up all night talking or playing video games, cuddling, making out, and not wanting to get out of bed when we are both comfy and you are in my arms. I am a person that sees needy and clingy as positives. 5 foot 9. Baby Blue eyes that can change to grey or a bit hazel depending upon my mood. I am a bigger guy, but health is something I am working on. I am eating better and losing weight. I do work and I do drive. I am not defined by my weight, and if you feel as though someone's weight or size would be an issue for you then I am not the person for that, and that is okay. I am affectionate, clingy, needy, overly doting, lovey, and love to take care the person I am with. I am Monogamous. I was Poly in the past, and it was not the fit for me. I am wanting to find MY person. I do fall into that teenage, hopeless romantic stage often. I want to make out on the couch with a movie on, and will get butterflies from just holding your hand. I may be 38, but I love and have the mentality of someone much younger. Let's share TikToks! ESFJ is you know what that means. And boy do I love shy introverts.

What I am seeking - Someone local, or if you are long distance willing to drive/travel for visits. I've done long distance for some time and it is so hard. It is not for everyone, so the closer the better. I am happy to drive to you as well; we can figure out distance for the right person. I am seeking out someone that loves love, and physical touch is important to them. I would like a Little or a Sub, that sort of dynamic is important to me. How that dynamic shapes is something that can be discussed, but I do love offering guidance, structure, rules if needed, and the feeling of being safe, loved, and protected. Communication is huge for me, and if you are someone that can go an entire day with just a handful of messages it simply will not work. I am not only looking for my forever partner but my best friend. I understand that people have lives and get busy, but for anything to develop we need communication via text, calls, pictures, and video chats. An expressive and emotional guy that wears his heart on his sleeve. I love long, deep conversations.

Something deeper/emotional with a bond. Honesty/Loyalty/Truthful. I am not looking to date casually or just have fun. My end goal is marriage. And I an open to the idea of children, depending on my partner. I am pretty well rooted where I live with a fantastic job that affords me great pay and benefits, while also working from home. Due to the rules, I have to maintain living in my state to keep the job. Ultimately I would prefer someone relocate to me, but me relocating is not entirely out of the question for the right fit and situation. It would just be a harder situation. Someone that enjoys kissing, cuddling, physical touch, affection. Touch is SO important to me. And I am a passionate kisser. And chemistry. My love languages are Physical Touch, Quality Time, and Words of Affirmation.

And obviously looking for someone Kinky or Kink Friendly. Aspects of the dynamic that I have dabbled with include: Age Regression, Age Play, Rules, Praises, Funishments, Daily Structure (including earning stickers for doing your chores to earn prizes), I have read bedtime stories, and collaring is something important to me. I am open to being either a Daddy or a Dom, or combination. I am a Softer Pleasure Dom, but I can be stern when needed and strict. I tend to go based upon the wants and needs of the person I am with and see how and what exactly they need. I have been totally nurturing but I've also had partners that like rough play and things like impact play. Kinks include but are not limited to Roleplay, Age Play, Family Play, Pet Play, CNC, Humiliation, Degradation, Choking, Impact Play, Hair Pulling, non-permanent marking/biting. I am open to ABDL, but it is nothing I have experience with. We can discuss the specifics if this is something you are into. That said, I do not expect someone I am seeking out to like all of the same things. I do not NEED every single kink satisfied. Let's chat, and see where we match up.

I will make you laugh and smile, and wipe away your tears when you definitely were cutting onions earlier. I am okay with someone having their own baggage or history. I am supportive and will do whatever I can to make you happy. I am loyal, and willing to go out on a limb for those close to me. I have my own history and baggage, and it is something I am working on. I have more confidence now then I ever have had, and I am working on seeing my own self worth. I will need reassurance at times, and I will offer the same in return.

I enjoy watching movies and TV, listening to all sorts of music (I like most from Rap to Rock to Country to Pop to EDM), watching sports (Cleveland sports fan), most things geek (Marvel, DC, Star Wars, Game of Thrones), tech and gadgets, and I collect Funko Pops (I have a few hundred).

I have no children but am open to them depending on the situation. I tend to date younger than me, so that is definitely a plus. I do have one cat, Luna.

Any questions, I am an open book and happy to answer.