- this will not read as someone who is submissive and that is the entire point. this is my 'vetting' process. i know exactly what i am looking for and i know exactly what i am. do not let the fact that this reads un-submissive make you think/believe i am not. please take the time to read this if you are looking for something serious! tysm

important things ~

♡ i work full time m-f and my job is really busy so i am not often able to be on my phone as much during working hours. this is something you'll need to be okay with right away & long term.

♡ being able to communicate over text is such an important thing to me. being able to express yourself via texting as well engage in good conversation. (ie; if i ask you something about yourself you should either ask me something about myself or the same thing. i like someone who has an interest in me.. call me crazy lol)

♡ i am not looking for anyone outside the USA right now. i have a job that i love that i am not planning to relocate anytime soon, ESPECIALLY outside america. don't let that make you think i love america because i do not lol.. which brings me to my next point

♡ i am liberal. i cannot stand politics and i often don't involve myself with it. i know the core beliefs that i have align a lot with the liberal/democratic party however i don't ask that you are liberal or democratic. i just ask that you accept the LGBTQ community, dont trust our government, and accept ALL races. also don't love a gun nut.. but i'm trying to be more understanding myself haha.

♡ i do not care if you smoke w33d or drink. i drink on occasion, i do not smoke. if smoking turns you into a zombie who can't think or move or if you have to smoke to function every day, please do not reach out. even if it is for PTSD. i feel for you, i am incredibly glad it can help you, but i cannot be with someone who smokes every day.

♡ i have been a submissive for 5 years. i want you to have experience with being a dom. i have had a DDLG relationship for 3 years and submissive before that. i dont prefer one over the other, i enjoy both of them equally.

♡ i move incredibly slow. this site is a trash fire that i cannot seem to pull myself from lol. therefore, i meet and talk to a lot of horrible people. but i have met some amazing people on it. i am not looking for sexting nor am i looking for a sexual relationship within the first MONTH at least. if this is a deal breaker for you, do not reach out :) this is an incredibly hard limit for me.

♡ i have multiple pictures on my profile of me but i am always willing to send more. i have a curvy build that i am NOT ashamed of, however i am very active at the gym right now and i am hoping to get more toned up in the baby face region lol. i do NOT care what your body looks like. obviously there will need to be mutual attraction for the both of us, so if you are not comfortable sending me a picture of your FACE, please move on.

♡ monogamous relationship only. i respect and love all poly and open couples i am just WAY too jealous for that.

♡ i am bisexual.

♡ it's incredibly hard to talk about myself and make rules for this long as it's not in my nature. i think you can grasp a pretty good idea of what i am looking for. the only other limit i have is age. you must be over 28 please.. i prefer 30-40. but no limits besides over 28.'

if you're still reading this, thank you. you're an angel lol. i'm looking for something serious so i am taking this seriously. i hope you are too.

as you can see from my profile, i have short blonde hair and blue eyes. 5'2 and curvy build (150 lbs). i know that physical attraction is a must have, if you have been with predominately tiny girls and you like that, i wouldn't discourage you from coming to the other side for a bit but don't expect me to be something i am not. i am NOT overweight. i am incredibly healthy and growing stronger every day. i love my body and you should as well.

i am a gemini sun, cap moon, libra rising (yes i love astrology), ENFP, my #1 character match is cam tucker from modern family (lol), words of affirmation is my first love language. if you don't know any of these about you that's totally fine, it'll be fun to figure them out together.

i have a cat, i live with my sibling (non-binary), i make good money, i am smart, driven, funny and emotional. i am full of love.

if this sounds like something you'd want to explore, please message me a photo of yourself and a few fun facts about you. or your favorite book/movie if you can't think of fun facts. thank you for taking the time. i appreciate and accept all of you who make this community so beautiful and inclusive.

-strawberry