I have tried a few different approaches to my posts recently, all of which haven’t had much success :-/ so this post is like an imaginary Guess Who? How does it work - make your way down the points below and if you are ‘still standing’ by the time you reach the end, then I can’t wait to hear from you! :-)

• No guys please, I’m sure that’s half the deck dropping but just not attracted sorry.

• Looking for something long term and not just a quick fling or flash in the pan.

• You aren’t looking for a relationship or to move half way around the world.

• Love to communicate, not necessarily all the time but you are a fan of writing and receiving long messages :-)

• You don’t need communication to be instant. We both have our own lives away from here, and that’s ok. We both know there we’ll be a message waiting for us next time we log in.

• On that theme, you won’t ghost. Just say if things aren’t working.

• You can spare a moment to read my past posts and reference something from them in your message to me. That way I’ll know you’ve understood more about me and why I’m a complicated little egg. The key parts really are that all this is quite confusing, I have a gf, and it feels like a journey without a map or sense of direction.

• You understand the concept of being lonely in some way and whilst that doesn’t define you is something that’s there.

• You aren’t looking for a sub or a dom, or to be one. You understand the depth that comes along with that type of dynamic and lean more towards being supportive for us both to enjoy that world without having to put a label on things.

• You’re a flirt like me and a bit adventurous when it comes to things. Open minded but level of experience doesn’t matter. Wait until I tell you mine :-p

• You get that we’re ultimately two strangers online so we will both be a little hesitant and nervous to start with. We won’t ever be on find a friend lol but slowly we open up and build a great and supportive connection.

• You’re open minded and have time for others.

I have no way of knowing how many virtual cards are still standing by this point. From past experience I’m going to take a bet that it’s not many. I don’t message or get messaged a lot on here but have so much to give. Haven’t worked out why yet but trying something new and will take it from there :-)

Oh I’m into all things sci-fi and space. Have a dog. Love being outside. Trying to get fit again for next year after a summer off. Video game. Love music. Follow Formula 1. Enjoy different whiskey and bourbons. Spend all year waiting to go skiing and wish I was closer to the mountains. And just missing you now :-)

Hope to talk soon, Jess xx