Hi there folks!

I am looking for an Owner of any gender or none. I've recently moved from a very large city where I was part of the local scene, to basically the middle of nowhere, so it's been very difficult to find local kink. I'm eventually looking for something irl, but starting online is a definite option. I'm primarily considering Canadians for ease of transition to a rl dynamic, but if you feel that moving to Canada may be a possibility in your future, I'm happy to consider that as well.

More about me, I guess! I've been in the lifestyle for about 10 years, and in that time I've gone from just learning to wanting the basics, to growing and wanting deeper and more intense experiences. The fantasies I have yet to fulfill now are all best fulfilled in a TPE dynamic, and I feel most comfortable in that arena. I have a wide array of toys, kinks, interests, and BDSM is very much a lifestyle for me.

Outside of kink, I enjoy being active, both at the gym and outside. I read, I paint, I play music, and I have love spending time in the kitchen cooking for the people I care about. I feel happiest when doing for others. I work in a stressful job where I'm very type A and my non work life tends to speak to that.

What I'm looking for: a dynamic where your pleasure comes first, second, and mine rarely occurs at all. M/s rather than D/s. Someone who enjoys inflicting pain for it's own sake, and not as punishment or as a means to get to other goals. Being a maso is a large part of my identity as a sub so I need to connect with you on this level. I'm seeking someone with experience, who has a clear idea of what they want, and the confidence to take it from me. Looking to be someone's primary partner, because the level of commitment I am offering and looking for is on the high end.

Thank you for reading, and I'll look forward to hearing from you. If you wish for a response, please understand that I'd like to chat first to get to know you, so starting with 'get on your knees slut' will not be successful. Neither will be 1-2 line messages.

Hope everyone finds what they're looking for.