Let's try this again 😅 This is an ever evolving post that I tweak as I learn more about myself and what I'm looking for. I think this is the 4th iteration. I call myself a sadist but I'm starting to wonder if I'm not a bit of a masochist considering I'm still trying to find my good girl on here. Since sometimes the intro on my profile gets ignored let me be clear...I AM MARRIED, SHE KNOWS. Yes, she will always come before you, yes I will take her wants/wishes into consideration over yours. That does not mean I don't have room in my mind and heart for a submissive. It is simply the reality of the situation though. Maybe you like the idea of always being lesser than her and enjoy that place of second best?

I am clear with my feelings and prefer direct communication. If I can be boldly honest I am a needy Dom. I desire daily communication where the conversation flows all day long. I want you consumed by me to the point you're missing bedtimes and work deadlines just to talk to me a little longer. Please do not ghost me. That is an unfortunately common occurrence on these forums in my experience at least. If I'm not for you, have the decency to just say that. I understand that I am one of a massive number of Dom(me)s looking for their sub and you'll have the pick of the litter so to speak. That doesn't mean we can't be upfront and civil to each other.

This is for an online, long term dynamic although if you happen to live in SEMO we could discuss meetups. If you don't know what SEMO is then you probably don't live close enough 😁

I consider myself a Daddy Dom. I'm a great mix of hard and soft. I'm the Dom that will treat you like property and at the same time like a regular romantic interest. I will be goofy with you. I will joke and tease and say smooshy things. I like to chat daily (not check-ins but conversations that last all day) and enjoy good morning and good night messages. I look forward to hearing all about your day and what you did. I want to be the authority figure you've been craving. Ideally you'll long for my approval and the first thought in your mind would be "What would Daddy want me to do". I enjoy control and will take over any decisions making you're comfortable giving. My favorites are orgasms (duh) and wardrobe.

Kink stuff can be found on my profile. The short of it is you name it I'm probably down for it. Although just because I'm into it and you're not doesn't mean it's a deal breaker for me. Here's the wish list for me... orgasm control/denial, masochist, humiliation/degradation, surrender of daily life control. I also will want pics and maybe videos. That can come after some time and doesn't necessarily need to include face. I've just found that being a strictly online dynamic, I'm most satisfied with visuals showing obedience to my commands/daily tasks. I am open to voice notes and calls eventually.

Please for the love of god be able to hold up your end of the conversation, preferably with some intelligence and wit. One word replies or replies with just an emoji will make me lose interest very fast.

Things that don't usually work for me... brats that make it their whole identity. I am not a brat tamer nor do I enjoy the back and forth of an incredibly willful girl. Don't get me wrong, I love a strong woman that only submits after it's earned but I don't feel that is the same as a brat. A little snark is fine and even enjoyed but a single correction better be enough. Age regression. I respect people's needs and kinks it's just not for me. Ddlg is fine just not with the regression included. Last but not least roleplayers. I am not looking for someone that is just out to rp or talk to Daddy until they get off. I want a real submissive looking for a real connection that comes with real tasks, rules and discipline.

Age I would prefer mid 20's but I'll entertain anyone that thinks my post speaks especially strongly to them. If you read this whole post DM me and use "smooshy" as the subject. I'm sure I've forgotten stuff. If you have questions hmu. I have an intro and kink list on my profile.