It's not everyone's dream scenario but DEFINITELY someone's...

TLDR: Eccentric, wildly creative, 90% civilized barbarian creating magic in the mountains ISO mythological femme creature to tantilize all of my senses and partake in meaningful discourse with the intention of regularly devolving in absolute depravity on a regular basis.
(ideal both characters in this scenario are hot - I know it's a lot to ask)

ME: Tatted up, big and fit. Every day people say I look like Thor or a viking. Every... damn... day...
Hell, sometimes I say it.
My mad max era is ending to usher in my Gomez Addam era, complete with the silver patches on the sides of my head.
Although elevated intellect seems to be something desired of those on the D spectrum and often boasted about by such characters, I refuse to call myself an intellectual. By saying things like this, it feels somewhat on the wrong side of Dunning-Kruger Effect.... Suffice to say, I am dedicated to expanding not only my mind and skill but the world I live in. Always expanding and growing.

I am extremely fortunate to be out in the middle of nowhere creating magnificent things on a huge plot of gorgeous land. This leads me to why I am posting on here:

While I am able to build grandiose creations, sometimes literally out of the dust beneath my feet, romance and even GOOD sex seems to be scarce within even a 1 hour drive. I often have to travel all the way to the city (NYC) for dates. Which isn't that bad but I would like to open that door digital door further and see if my scenario is potentially someone's dream come true.

I have heard so many women say they want to move to the country, be a hedge witch, grow plants in the garden and have the space to grow and create beauty.
I have all of that. Furthermore, I am also fortunate to have funding to build amazing things. I Currently designing the house I will live in: sustainable architecture meets wabi sabi and art nouveau.

WHY BDSMr4r? Seems pretty vanilla until now ey?

I have been a freak my whole damn life. Anything I have been told is wrong or makes me feel like a filthy slut will probably turn me on. I have been into BDSM since before I could legally drink.
I would say I have performed a Dominant role pretty regularly for 15 years. The first 4 years I wasn't very good at it but the last 11 I have really learned and honed what I do. I have been everything from a full-on master with a 24/7 slaves to some light DDlg. Each dynamic is it's own and that is why we love it, am I right? The depth of the connection and trust... As with anyone worth their salt in a D role, I proceed reverently and honor the trust bestowed upon me.
Of course, this can and will devolve into a place of disrespectful irreverence if that is what the dynamic calls for.

I have my limits but almost anything can be up for discussion and negotiation.

Look, I know I'll get flack in the comments for this but... I really don't care. It's all true.
I do not have a lack of options. I am not desperate. I am not a troll pining away in my parent's basement. I am a very prolific individual and have heard that I am not hard on the eyes quite a few times. I may not have a 6 pack but you can actually see my abs and quite a few other muscles as well.
I know this isn't how most of the posts on here go but I am not like most people.
I want someone to get excited about spooky fall advenures, doind witchy sh*t, foraging wild mushrooms, eating at bougie restaurants, and going to the ballet but also really wants me to spit in her mouth and tell her she is a flithy slut and/or an array of devient delights.

At the end of the day I want someone who is SUPER into hanging out on this beautiful piece of land and amazing project I am building.
Maybe you want to eventually live here... maybe you also want to be collared and owned...
Maybe you want to bake in the kitchen in a pencil skirt and braid my hair after a long hard day.... OK now I am devolving into fantasy.

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I generally date people that are tattoed /pierced and/or modded in some way.
Ladies on some kind of witchy spectrum.
The goth kids at the ayahuasca ceremony who bring homemade pumpkin cake.

I know there is a high chance nothing will come of this but I am hopeful!

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