Are you looking for a firm hand to control your desires and tell you how to act out your deepest desires? Would you like to embrace the hidden kinks that you are ashamed to show to others? Look no further. To put it simply, I am looking for one of two people - either a submissive woman or a cuckold/hotwife since I enjoy both types of dynamics.

I would like to preface all of this by saying that I like to get to know my sub or cuckold/hotwife well before engaging in any play. It takes a bit of commitment and I don't do online play. It is okay to start online but I keep it brief since it isn't natural for me. I would like to meet up after talking for a while and get to know the person/people for who they are. I won't be able to play with people unless I know them to some extent. I would also like people to be from around Yorkshire or somewhere nearby. On to the juicy stuff then.

In terms of a submissive woman, I am looking for someone who enjoys kinks such as power dynamics, degradation, humiliation, orgasm control/denial, bondage and pain play. I particularly enjoy something which I call the duality - maintaining a proper and upstanding behaviour in public but in private, engaging in a kinky and hedonistic lifestyle. The contrast between the two faces is something that I enjoy and if this appeals to you as a sub, you are definitely the type of sub that I am seeking. Imagine being the boss, manager or leader where you are in charge of looking after other people and have large responsibilities. Other people look up to you and admire you. However, deep within your heart, you want to go home to your dom, drop your panties for him, get bent over his knees and have your ass spanked while he tells you what dirty slut you are for behaving this way. I have been told that I have a way with words by my previous subs and I enjoy seeing the sub embrace kinks whereby they humiliate and degrade themselves on my instructions.

On the other hand, in terms of a cuckold/hotwife, I also enjoy seeing cuckolds being dominated by myself and hotwives. The view when seeing a cuckold squirm by the side of the bed while wearing a head hood in women's lingerie with his dicklette in a chastity cage is quite something. It is even better when the hotwife holds onto his dicklette like a handle while she is enjoying her dom's dick. Seeing a hotwife build and exude her confidence alongside me with the cuckold at our feet is a truly delectable feeling. It is all about the unique power dynamics that are involved in the hotwife/cuckold dynamic.

All of this is done with consent and prior discussion with safe words and care. If all of this sounds exciting to you, send me a message because there is a good chance that we would be compatible.

The vanilla me enjoys reading mystery novels and history. I really enjoy modern history (world war II and onwards) and tying that into how it has affected and continues to impact the current world landscape. I generally like to talk to people about anything since I enjoy learning new things. I work full time. A photo of me is on my profile although I will share my face only after getting to know you. Privacy and discretion is a very important thing for me and it takes time to build trust as it should be for you as well.

You can check my comment and post history for how I do kinks especially degradation and humiliation. If you feel like any of the above description rings a bell for you, just DM me or send me a chat.