A 31 year old man from the UK. I have an athletic body type with black hair and dark brown eyes. I work full time in a professional capacity and have a busy job. Happy to say more about myself and share photos after getting to know each other.

I am looking for a woman who is into degradation, humiliation, body writing, power dynamics, shibari and other kinks along these lines. My kinks are the same as the ones that I have described but also include bondage (especially predicament bondage), orgasm control and light-moderate pain. I have quite a few toys and equipment including a Lovense Lush 3, restraints, hoods, gags and a Wartenberg wheel. If you enjoy playing with these, you certainly have the qualities that I am looking for. I particularly enjoy playing with subs who maintain a professional prim and proper daytime life and have a filthy and depraved mind in private. I call it the duality. I particularly enjoy the psychological aspect of kink play and would like my sub to be able to relate to that as well. My limits are blood, knives, permanent scarring and anything illegal. I would prefer people replying to be 21 years old and older and I have a soft spot for older women.

Getting to know the sub as a person is important for me since we are all people first and kinksters after that. Everyone has limits and I don't expect things to immediately work out. A good discussion must be had so that everyone's soft and hard limits are understood. I have experience in kink play especially humiliation and orgasm control and I am trying to improve my shibari skills.

A bit about the general me - I enjoy reading mystery novels and discussing philosophy and history. I am looking to explore bouldering since I love climbing. I particularly enjoy a good conversation and would rather talk to someone face to face rather than message them. I very much prefer in person play compared to online play but I am happy to start out online. I expect to move things to in person at some point though.

You can check my comment history for how I do degradation and kinks in general. If you feel like any of the above description rings a bell for you, just DM me or send me a chat. Happy to answer any questions!