I’m a 26F looking for a male Dom type for a D/s romantic relationship. This is going to be a little lengthy and if you message me about it, I do expect you to have read the whole thing.

I’m looking for something both kinky AND romantic. If you just want sex, I respect that but this is not the post for you. I’m also fairly monogamous so if you’re already in a relationship or need to have multiple at once, once again I totally respect that, but I’m not the person you’re looking for.

Personally, I am a BBW (about 5’8 and 230 lbs) and I am mainly a sub but get switchy on rare occasions. My subbiness can range from little girl, to brat, to masochist, to puppy etc. It just depends on my mood. I like pain, degradation, and giving up all control. Cuddles are my kryptonite.

By request, I will send you the link to my Fetlife profile so you have more info and some body pictures if you’d like.

You can also read my kink list on Fetlife or ask me about them if you want to know more about what I’m into. If you do reach out, let me know what kinda stuff you’re into as well.

I’m looking for a Daddy Dom who also wants to be my life partner. I want us to do all the regular vanilla relationship things and also have an amazingly kinky sex life. I’ve tried dating apps, but I felt like going straight to the source of kinky people is a better bet.

Because of the nature of this relationship, I am looking for someone around my age. My usual dating range is 24-36 but feel free to reach out if you’re a little bit more or less on each end as well (key words being “a little bit”).

You should be mainly dominant but also caring and a good everyday partner. Foreplay and aftercare are very important! So are respect, consent, communication and maturity!

Looks wise, I’m into dad bods, beards, and guys over 5’11. Those aren’t requirements, just preferences. If you’re interested, a face picture would be needed soonish into the convo. I’ll provide one too. Obviously we wanna be attracted to one another.

I’d love for the relationship to be vanilla on the outside but fairly 24/7. Kink is not something I ever plan on sharing with my family or (not close) friends, but I love sublet acts of domination around others when they aren’t aware. I’d also love for us to be free use one day (but maybe that’s just a fantasy, we’d have to cautiously explore together). Obviously all of this is fluid and up for continuous discussion.

So if you’ve made it this far, and you’re still interested, send me a message! I’d love to hear from you and see if we’re a good fit. If our convo goes well maybe we can even get a coffee together! If I don’t get back to you right away I apologize, I don’t check my messages as often as I’d like.