One of my favorite ways to describe myself is as a chaos kitten or sex gremlin. My relationships, once I feel safe and connected with someone, are filled with fun and playfulness. The line between being needy and needing plenty of independence is a tricky one. A cat lover would enjoy my company most. 😝
I do get serious when it comes to my needs. Communication, honesty, thoughtfulness, consent, and openness are must-haves. I can’t be with someone I can’t trust.
What I’m looking for is more difficult. Relationship-wise I consider myself most comfortable in a well-communicated space between open and strictly monogamous. A flexible Monogamish, if you will.
Kinks are complicated because I find they tend to be pretty niche, but at the same time if I announce them interested men forget I’m a person first. I cherish my agency and free will.
Having a meat shield for attending parties and events is also really important to me. Some of my most significant values are community and acts of service, and I need someone who will mirror that.
My love language, if you’re interested, is probably quality time. The others are all pretty equal. I enjoy them, but nothing makes me feel as loved as someone taking time out of their day to spend it with me.
If you take stock in it - I’m a Gemini and INFP.
I’m as comfortable enjoying the outdoors (especially picnics, camping, and hot springs) as I am enjoying plays and museums.
Preferences would be local or online to start but can move offline. I’m not attracted to younger men.
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