I want to be chased and claimed. Primal and free use are two of my biggest kinks, and I need a long-term partner to connect with who enjoys them just as much. Someone who is charismatic, experienced, and at the end of the day genuinely kind. You care about others, and not just for what they can do for you.

There’s a fine line between gentle, natural confidence and being full of yourself. Where do you stand? Do you trust your instincts, but also take others’ feedback into account?

Mental and emotional stability and maturity are going to be important, as well. Although I often enjoy providing acts of service, I need a partner who doesn’t view BDSM as a chance to gain a domestic servant. You are an adult and capable of fulfilling adult responsibilities.

My preference leans towards the upperclassmen, ‘senpai’, or older brother’s friend vibe. An age range of 35-40ish is perfect. Monogamish. Intellectual and primal. Cultured. As comfortable enjoying plays as camping.

I’m a returning college student studying Psychology, with the plan of changing my career to grief counseling and death doula work. My hobbies are varied, and I always find some way to amuse myself. My values would be a community, acts of service, meaningful work, competence, and play. In the vein of community, my biggest hobby is running an online kink community. It’s important to me and I would prefer if my partner were willing to explore it if we connect. I have a pretty big voice kink, and a good growl gets me every time.

I’ve dealt with some loss recently, so I may be slow to respond. Discord, especially voice chat, is always best. Sometimes I find the flow of words difficult to harness and don’t always know where to start typing. With voice, the conversation tends to move more naturally. I'm perfectly fine with online to start but I don't want something limited to the internet.

I’m not looking for sumfuk. Don’t send me shirtless or dick pics. Instead, how about you introduce yourself and tell me about your purpose in life? Who are you? What’s most important to you?