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41 [F4M] #USA - Worst nightmare/best dream. Single masochistic bbg sub seeking possessive, obsessive, sadistic & loving Daddy Dom (age 30s - 40s)
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forgettable2ndbest is a female age 41 looking for a male in USA
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I am 41, though most people don't believe it. Under 5'5", bbw on the smaller side and curvy. Single, no children, an introvert INFJ, multiethnic, brown hair/eyes, and very old-fashioned in many ways.

I am a submissive with a masochistic side interested in getting to know a Daddy Dom who loves being called Daddy who is single, 30s to 40s age range, naturally very dominant, possessive, protective and passionate. No "soft Doms", must have a rough/dark side too. Casual is ok, but if it turns into more that would be nice. United states only, international never works long-term. Someone who can be around evenings and nights and will want text and voice.

I need someone I feel a strong chemistry with who likes to be really closely in touch as often as possible. Even to the point of being obsessive if we really like each other. Someone who is not afraid to be screwed up and "abnormal" with me in our twisted ways knowing that it is all out of a place of love & desire. I am definitely not looking for something ordinary.

Someone who is loving as well as dark, twisted, and strictly possessive. Maybe other women have not been able to handle how possessive, clingy or controlling you are. One who knows how to get into my psyche and stir me up in the worst way as well as relax and comfort me. One who would enjoy playing dark games such as hunter/prey, verbal play, mind play, CNC, breeding and more.

I don't know why more dominant men don't understand that breaking rapport and keeping a strong frame/position of power is so attractive to women like me. I don't need you to be agreeable or polite with me, but instead to enjoy playing with me to get what you want & to remind me of my place. I do have a cheeky/brat side that is easily tamed.

I want someone who is old-fashioned, likes traditional gender roles (being misogynistic is a bonus!), and wants a woman who is very submissive, feminine in traditional ways, soft-spoken and a true follower by nature.

If we wanted a relationship, I would love someone who would not hesitate to meet me & who shares some of my core interests such as nature, animals, hiking, playing games, music, being cooked/baked for, into dark/spooky/obscure side of life, into vintage/antique/historical stuff & topics, working with tools (you, not me), crafts, DIY projects & exploring life together.

Attraction is very important to me and I would be a good fit for someone who is a HLM if the chemistry is really good. My preferred type is clean cut (I'm not into the grungy hippie/hobo/caveman look), near 6' or taller, cuddly, non-smoker, no substance abuse problems, at least moderately cares about health or is willing to work towards that with help, and is very stable and very responsible. A do-er who likes to be serious about making things happen when they really want them to. If you have kids, that's lovely, but please no drama with immature exes.

I don't know anymore if the person I've described in this post exists, but if you do, please let me know.

Looking for something unique, so if there is no spark, I probably won’t continue. The more unique your reply, the more you will have my attention. Please include a pic and please use chat instead of inbox. Thank you. : )

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