Hi, First about me: I am a 36 year old woman, I am tall and a bit overweight. Located in central Europe. My experience in this community is limited, but I have enough to know what I like, for the most part. I am on the introverted side, so I am looking for someone that knows how to initiate a conversation. I am a submissive, but otherwise a strong and independent person, for me respect doesn't come with a title, it needs to be earned. I do not respond to degradation or humiliation. I believe BDSM relationship can be beautiful and I will be very happy to submit to the right person that treats me right. I am not a brat, I try to be good and I have no problem admitting when I misbehave. I also have no problem pointing out when I think I'm not treated fairly. Mainly I really enjoy non sexual control, rules and routines, being controlled in day to day life. Being praised when I do well and punished when I don't. I am open to exploring sexual side of this, but don't have much experience. Photos and videos are not off the table, but I would need to build the trust and respect before it happens.

I am looking for a kind, patient soft dom, firm, but fair. I need to feel safe before I can open up. You have to be confident and calm, but need to know how to listen. Preferably around my age or older, and in or close to central European time zone. Someone who would enjoy putting me in my place, getting me to be better and take control when I am not. I am not looking for a quick fun, only something that could last long term.

I am not interested in dress up, humiliation, public, anything too extreme... As far as my limited experience go, I like spanking, kneeling, anal and I am sure you can think of something else I would like. I will happily explore your kinks and hopefully we click.

If you think you could be there right Dom for me, please send a message.