My SO is punishing me for not being helpful enough by making me make all of her decisions. What does that mean? That means that I've been at work for over 4 hours and haven't gotten anything done because I'm constantly on my phone texting her back like I'm playing a video game giving a character instructions line by line. I can't focus at work and answer "What should I feed the kids?" "They're still hungry, what now?" "The baby made a mess, should I clean it up?" "What should I use to clean it up up?" Every little thing. She has done this before. I lost a really good job a couple years ago because of this. I was coming in late because it was just easier to do things for my kids in the morning than stop what I was doing every two or three minutes to give her instructions. Between the questions are constant jabs of "if you cared you wouldn't have me do this." I'm so stressed I'm shaking. My kids are asking and begging when I'm coming home. I just want to crawl in a hole.