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r/abusiverelationships

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For anyone of any gender identity who has ever been in an abusive relationship or is currently in one. This is a place for people to vent, share their stories and offer support to others in similar situations. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/abusiverelationships by lurkulongthyme
1 week ago
I apologized to his son’s mother today.
Healing and recovery
to r/abusiverelationships by Steven696998
6 days ago
I’m sorry I couldn’t be the man to heal you but I hope you find healing where you’re ending up
Healing and recovery
to r/abusiverelationships by eatBuGsandPlaNtS
2 weeks ago
I’m feeling stuck and desperately trying to leave
to r/abusiverelationships by lurkulongthyme
3 weeks ago
My ex lied to me about having a son, I don’t like the way I feel when I think about kids and pregnancy now. What can I do?
Support request
to r/abusiverelationships by Swimming_Rub7192
1 month ago
He took the puppy to hurt me
Emotional abuse
to r/abusiverelationships by Swimming_Rub7192
1 month ago
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In hiding
Emotional abuse
to r/abusiverelationships by pissknotx
1 week ago
idk
to r/abusiverelationships by lurkulongthyme
3 weeks ago
My life has progressively gotten worse since I left my ex and I’m having a hard time not reaching out.
Support request
to r/abusiverelationships by s_h_a_n_n_n_0_n
4 weeks ago
Play fighting vs abuse?
to r/abusiverelationships by CarbonParrot
1 month ago
Am I being abused?
Emotional abuse
to r/abusiverelationships by QueenKora18
1 month ago
Anyone else have severe nightmares about their ex abusive partners years later?
to r/abusiverelationships by blackwomaninmtl
2 months ago
Still get flashbacks about violent baby father
Domestic violence
to r/abusiverelationships by delinafabiana44
2 months ago
Help from friend
Domestic violence
to r/abusiverelationships by Accomplished_Eye4349
2 months ago
Why do I do this to myself
Emotional abuse
to r/abusiverelationships by Crazy-Pound-8892
2 months ago
i’m tired need advice
Domestic violence
to r/abusiverelationships by rhinestonegutz
2 months ago
(21f) I just found my (35m) boyfriend is a convicted pedo
to r/abusiverelationships by Ryazas
2 months ago
I need someone to talk to
Emotional abuse
to r/abusiverelationships by Ebbie45
2 months ago
Mod Post: A List of Myths About Sexual Violence Against Men and Boys
to r/abusiverelationships by lurkulongthyme
2 months ago
When does the anger go away?
Healing and recovery
to r/abusiverelationships by Ebbie45
2 months ago
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A Utah man never hit his wife — until he tried to kill her. But how he treated her was a warning sign.
in Utah
to r/abusiverelationships by lilith_sos
1 month ago
He never hit me. I left anyway.
to r/abusiverelationships by Only-Reality-69
3 months ago
Was I dating an emotionally abusive woman?
Emotional abuse
to r/abusiverelationships by Ok-Estimate-4677
5 days ago
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Im getting away
TRIGGER WARNING
to r/abusiverelationships by Apprehensive_Day6083
3 months ago
I feel like i'm being held emotionally captive, but I am struggling mentally to leave my girlfriend
to r/abusiverelationships by dr_gonzo_the_menace
1 month ago
Please help me