So I woke up this morning and decided to help my wife get ready and out of the house. I got her and the kids clothes together. I helped gather some stuff. I took everything out to the car. I got kids buckled up. She laid in bed until 15 minutes before she needed to leave. She helped my daughter do her hair. She got dressed. She put snacks and lunches that we made last night in the cooler. Then she couldn't find her debit card. She started turning our bathroom, our bedroom, the kitchen, the laundry room, and every where inbetween upside down looking for it. She's yelling at me the whole time about how I'm useless, I never help with anything, I should know where it is, and on and on. Anytime I ask a question to try to help look for it like "where was the last place you saw it?" She would scream at me "if I knew that it wouldn't be lost would it?!" Now she's late for where she needs to be and just storms out and yells at me to text her with what is available on the credit card that she could just use that. So I look it up and text it to her and she responds with "That doesn't matter because my card is expired. Call the bank and find out what I have to do to get a new card. You could have just given me your cards." So now that she lost her new card before she could even activate it, my fault, and I didn't just hand my cards over to someone that just lost theirs, my fault. Why even when I try to do something nice one thing has to go wrong and somehow it's always all my fault. 😣