Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Be a Good Community Member
Please adhere to proper Reddiquette!
No R4R or Other Connection Posts
Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub.
This keeps the sub focused on discussion.
No Titillating Pictures or Stories
Please do not post naked/scantily clad pics, videos, or links to same. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersgw .
Stories are great, if they're for the purpose of generating discussions or generating questions. However, stories—fictional or otherwise—should not be posted here.
Studies Must Be Vetted
Swingers always want to know more about swinging, so we're happy to allow posts seeking study participation on non-monogamy and swinging. However, studies must be vetted. Simply send a mod message with your name, the name of the sponsoring professor and the university. One of us will reach out and confirm the study's validity.
No Cuckold or Hotwife content
While some swingers maybe into hotwife and cuckolding, this is different than swinging with a completely different dynamic and is best discussed on such places as, r/nonmonogamy , r/HotWifeLifestyle/ , and /r/CuckoldCommunity/ . Please note this does not include questions you may have about threesomes. Borderline posts will be at the moderators discretion.
No Doxing
Posting of anyone's lifestyle site's screen name or kik name or any other profile information is strictly forbidden. Do not post anyone's pictures. Do not make any attempt to out anyone. Violation of this rule may result in an immediate ban from r/swingers.
No Low Effort Posts
If you want real advice and discussion, please ask full questions. Posts that are too broad may be removed at the discretion of moderators.
No political posting
No political posting. This is at the discretion of the mods, but any post which revolves around politics, political parties, or political issues, outside of one that directly addresses swinging such as a local city trying to close a club are prohibited and will result in a ban.
Not swinging related.
/r/swingers is to discuss swinging. issues in swinging, and closely related topics. Posts which are not may be removed at the moderators discretion.
Advertisers Must Be Verified
In order to promote anything on this subreddit, you must first be verified. Be aware, it's a very difficult bar to cross in this sub for good reason. However, if you're an active member of this sub in good standing, the moderators may whitelist your account for an occasional promotion.
Please see the full rule for details on being verified as a promoter.