r/Socalswingers
Southern California
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SoCal swingers is a community created to connect local swingers and to grow the local Southern California swinging community.

All Southern California swinging / lifestyle oriented topics or questions welcomed.

Visitors welcomed.

Please read all the rules before posting. Boundaries and consent are important in the swinger lifestyle.

Socalswingers Moderators

Last updated: 09/21/2024
• madlydeeplyinlove added 4 years ago and removed 1 day ago
• swingershelp added 2 years ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/Indiana_Swingers, r/GeorgiaSwingers, r/ArizonaSwingers, r/KYSwingers, r/IllinoisSwingers, and 27 more...)
• deepvue added 2 years ago (also mods r/NewMexicoSwingers, r/KansasSwingers)
• Kinzy_Twist added 2 years ago and removed 1 day ago
• SocalBull01 added 2 years ago and removed 5 months ago
• wintermournings added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• Jerkin2This added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• thegoodvice1234 added 1 year ago (also mods r/gonewildSoCal)
• randc2010 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• JamesSmith1200 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/LosAngelesSwingers)
• throwawaybanana5000 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• FuriouslyFaded added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• Luisssafer added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/EsposaCompartida, r/GangbangGirlz)
• ENM_CA_Cpl added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/sandiegoswingers_)
• Doth3d3w added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• demoninangels added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• BakoXXXhound added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• Anonqwe12 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• Worth-Perception-114 added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago
• RepostSleuthBot added 1 year ago (also mods r/AquaLewds, r/benzodiazepines, r/CaliforniaSwingers, r/FloridaSwingers, r/Indiana_Swingers, and 787 more...)
• cigarlovr added 1 year ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/LosAngelesSwingers)
• KittyandTheCockk added 1 year ago (also mods r/LosAngelesSwingers)
• Infamous-Spray-4011 added 11 months ago and removed 1 day ago (also mods r/LosAngelesSwingers)
• sexymexyhotwife added 10 months ago and removed 5 months ago (also mods r/marriedwivesforBBC, r/LAbbwsGoneWild, r/BBCaddicts, r/bbwsocalswingers, r/tortas)
• MFhispaniccpl added 6 months ago
• anthongy added 5 months ago (also mods r/SoCalR4R, r/socalr4rverified)
• westcoastblisss added 5 months ago

Socalswingers Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Be a Good Community Member

Be polite, respectful & follow proper Reddiquette. Keep your comments friendly. Don't call others whores or sluts, skip the potential slut shaming.

Please don't monopolize the subreddit by submitting similar posts on the same day.

Put a good faith effort into your posts and interactions in the comments. Don't respond to obvious spam & scams. It only encourages them.

Single males - Do not message couples who are not seeking single males.

• No Selling

This isn't the place to recruit new customers for your OnlyFans or other businesses. Any profiles that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment will be banned.

No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.

• Stay on Topic

This is specifically for the Southern California swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc).

If you are a single and looking for R4R, please go use another subreddit. This means any posts stating or implying M4F or F4M will be removed.

If you are posting for SoCal, please post the city or area you are looking in (not just SoCal) If you are outside of SoCal, please find the appropriate subreddit.

• No profiles that sell or selling

Any profiles or posts that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment will be banned.

No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.

• Single male posting rules

Single males are NOT allowed to post.
You are allowed to comment on posts where the poster is seeking a single male/third. You will be banned for creating a post or posting in areas such as MF4MF
F4MF.

Reminder this is not a R4R sub, so all other posts are off topic.

• Single / Single male posting rules

Single males are NOT allowed to post.
You are allowed to comment on posts where the poster is seeking a single male/third. You will be banned for creating a post or posting in areas such as MF4MF
F4MF.

Single women/Unicorns are allowed to post.
But only seeking couples and may not post dick pics. Dick pics by singles are not allowed.

Reminder this is not a R4R sub, so all other posts are off topic. Violation of this rule leads to a ban. Single males are guests.

• No Singles Posting Dick Pics

Singles should not be posting. Exception: Unicorns seeking couples.

Ex: F4MF

• Be Respectful

Don’t come on here calling peoples partners whores and sluts. This is not the pornhub comment section. Please respect people and don’t project your expectations and kinks onto others

• No profiles that sell, no selling, no buying

Any profiles or posts that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment may be banned.
If we suspect you are selling, you will be banned. It’s best to create a secondary profile free of any paysites or links to avoid any issue.

No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.

Buying includes offering drugs or money for services.

• Appeals/Reversals

We all want to keep this subreddit free of troublemakers. Our volunteer moderators & automated spam filters do their best. Sometimes a good post can be incorrectly flagged or a good member accidentally breaks a rule. If this happens, or you have been told to read the rules, contact the mod team and mention "orange" in your message or title to show you read the rules thoroughly. Be polite & explain your situation. Will not reverse bans on singles

Don't use a new account to get around a ban.

• Don't spam responses

Saying "DM me" to 30 posts will not endear you to anyone. Put some effort into your responses, make sure you aren't replying to bots or scammers, and help grow the community.

• No fake accounts

Pretty self explanatory, can be used to report obvious spammers and scammers.

• Reporting tool for scammers

Can be used to report obvious spammers and scammers.

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