Be polite, respectful & follow proper Reddiquette https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/205926439

Neglecting this rule while interacting with the moderators will get you banned.

The Lifestyle community is built on honesty, communication, respect, and consent.

This is specifically for the local swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc). General discussion or sharing is encouraged and posts do not need to be connection requests, but there must be a swinging element to any post.

Swinging is defined as three or more people involved in the activity. One person looking for one person is not on topic for this sub.

This is specifically for the local swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc). If you are a single and looking for vanilla sex, go use a vanilla site. Low effort posts will be removed.

DATING REQUESTS NEED TO INCLUDE A LOCATION
Please make sure you post a location in your dating requests. It can be a town, city, region, or venue.

This isn't the place to recruit new customers for your OnlyFans or other businesses. Don't publicly post, share, or hint at your OnlyFans, premium Snapchat or other types of payment or selling accounts. Ads and links on your profile are considered violations of this rule. Stay well clear of this and message the mods if you have concerns.

Skip that low effort dick pic or be banned. Be better than just posting a picture of your junk. If there isn't a women in the picture, it is highly likely a low effort junk pic and you'll be banned. This is not a ban on dicks in pics but it is a ban on dick pics. If you can't understand the difference, please don't post.

If you act entitled/rude to the volunteer mods, expect a long ban.

MUST BE SWINGING. This is specifically for the local swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc). If you are a single and looking for another single, go use those subreddits.

LOW EFFORT POSTS. Low effort posts will be removed. This includes posts short titles or content.

INCLUDE A LOCATION.Please make sure you post a location in your dating requests. It can be a town, city, region, or venue.

Skip that low effort dick pic or be banned. Be better than just posting a picture of your junk. If there isn't a women in the picture, it is highly likely a low effort junk pic and you'll be banned. This is not a ban on dicks in pics but it is a ban on dick pics. If you can't understand the difference, please don't post.

You are only allowed to post pictures of yourself, or yourselves for couples accounts.

If you act entitled/rude to the volunteer mods, expect a long ban.

Please use the format of R4R , Location, Short Title
Include the age of the OP(s), as well. Can be general, such as 30s.

M - Male
F - Female
T - Trans
N - Nonbinary

Examples:
33M28F4MF, ATL, Visiting Hotlanta next weekend

28M4MF, Macon, Looking to add to your experience

66F4MF, Valdosta, Free at last and ready to play

Skip that low effort dick pic or be banned. Be better than just posting a picture of your junk. If there isn't a women in the picture, it is highly likely a low effort junk pic and you'll be banned. This is not a ban on dicks in pics but it is a ban on dick pics. If you can't understand the difference, please don't post.

Skip that low effort dick pic or be banned. Also, follow rules for pics.

Do NOT post ANY dick in the first or only picture of the album.

Be better than just posting a picture of your junk. If there isn't a women in the picture, it is likely a dick pic

Try involving a partner, if it is a couples post, and focus on the activity involved but still not in first

If by yourself try a full body picture, show off yourself from knees to shoulders.

put some effort into showing off and stay classy.

You are only allowed to post pictures of yourself, and others that you have gotten explicit consent to share.

Pictures should be focused on the OP(s).

This isn't the place to recruit new customers for your OnlyFans or other businesses. Don't publicly post, share, or hint at your OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, ads on your profile, etc. Stay well clear of this.

Pictures should accurately represent the person posting the connection post. Heavily filtered or AI generated photos will be removed. Edits to protect privacy are permitted.

Please use the appropriate post and user flair when interacting in this community.

We all want to keep this subreddit free of troublemakers. Our volunteer moderators & automated spam filters do their best. Sometimes a good post can be incorrectly flagged or a good member accidentally breaks a rule. If this happens, contact the mod team.Be polite & explain your situation. The mod team will review your case as quickly as possible. We all want to grow and protect this community of local swingers.