All Southern California swinging / lifestyle oriented topics or questions welcomed.
Visitors welcomed.
Please read all the rules before posting. Boundaries and consent are important in the swinger lifestyle.
Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Be a Good Community Member
Be polite, respectful & follow proper Reddiquette. Keep your comments friendly. Don't call others whores or sluts, skip the potential slut shaming.
Please don't monopolize the subreddit by submitting similar posts on the same day.
Put a good faith effort into your posts and interactions in the comments. Don't respond to obvious spam & scams. It only encourages them.
Single males - Do not message couples who are not seeking single males.
No Selling
This isn't the place to recruit new customers for your OnlyFans or other businesses. Any profiles that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment will be banned.
No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.
Stay on Topic
This is specifically for the Southern California swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc).
If you are a single and looking for R4R, please go use another subreddit. This means any posts stating or implying M4F or F4M will be removed.
If you are posting for SoCal, please post the city or area you are looking in (not just SoCal) If you are outside of SoCal, please find the appropriate subreddit.
No profiles that sell or selling
Any profiles or posts that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment will be banned.
No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.
Single male posting rules
Single males are NOT allowed to post.
You are allowed to comment on posts where the poster is seeking a single male/third. You will be banned for creating a post or posting in areas such as MF4MF
F4MF.
Reminder this is not a R4R sub, so all other posts are off topic.
Single / Single male posting rules
Single males are NOT allowed to post.
You are allowed to comment on posts where the poster is seeking a single male/third. You will be banned for creating a post or posting in areas such as MF4MF
F4MF.
Single women/Unicorns are allowed to post.
But only seeking couples and may not post dick pics. Dick pics by singles are not allowed.
Reminder this is not a R4R sub, so all other posts are off topic. Violation of this rule leads to a ban. Single males are guests.
No Singles Posting Dick Pics
Singles should not be posting. Exception: Unicorns seeking couples.
Ex: F4MF
Be Respectful
Don’t come on here calling peoples partners whores and sluts. This is not the pornhub comment section. Please respect people and don’t project your expectations and kinks onto others
No profiles that sell, no selling, no buying
Any profiles or posts that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment may be banned.
If we suspect you are selling, you will be banned. It’s best to create a secondary profile free of any paysites or links to avoid any issue.
No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.
Buying includes offering drugs or money for services.
Appeals/Reversals
We all want to keep this subreddit free of troublemakers. Our volunteer moderators & automated spam filters do their best. Sometimes a good post can be incorrectly flagged or a good member accidentally breaks a rule. If this happens, or you have been told to read the rules, contact the mod team and mention "orange" in your message or title to show you read the rules thoroughly. Be polite & explain your situation. Will not reverse bans on singles
Don't use a new account to get around a ban.
Don't spam responses
Saying "DM me" to 30 posts will not endear you to anyone. Put some effort into your responses, make sure you aren't replying to bots or scammers, and help grow the community.
No fake accounts
Pretty self explanatory, can be used to report obvious spammers and scammers.
Reporting tool for scammers
Can be used to report obvious spammers and scammers.
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