Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,693 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/11/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 35 minutes ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 35 minutes ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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J_arms
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to r/SoCalR4R by kukudasss
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27 [M4F] #LA - korean looking for casual hookups
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to r/SoCalR4R by GayBoy7689
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20 [M4M] #RedondoBeach - Are you a Straight Guy & Horny to Fuck a Tight Asian Mixed Gay Boy Ass to Release a Load
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to r/SoCalR4R by LaserSunset
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34 [M4F] #WestLA - Looking for a connection
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33 [M4F] #Montebello - Ruin my face like this job has ruined my day.
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30 [M4F] #Burbank - Ready to Unload Until The Last Drop
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to r/SoCalR4R by Brownhound_fet
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25 [M4F] #Irvine - Seeking a pillow princess to wrap her legs around me as I please her~
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to r/SoCalR4R by sad-cow03
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to r/SoCalR4R by Kingcrims0n__
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to r/SoCalR4R by LazyArea4225
10 hours ago
20 [M4F] #MiraMesa - Nerdy marine seeks fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by CravingCock_InSocks
10 hours ago
32 [M4M] #Pasadena - HELP ME OUT, BROS! Horny, masculine gay guy here wanting to suck STRAIGHT COCK while I jack off. Any STRAIGHT BROS wanna help me out? DARKROOM. ANON. Just step inside, whip it out, and get sucked. You bust down my throat while I bust on the floor. Zip up and be on your way.
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to r/SoCalR4R by FrankieRoo
11 hours ago
39 [M4F] #burbank - looking for a short-term fling or FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by SleeplessWestCoast
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to r/SoCalR4R by RackahBlackah
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33 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Nite Owl Looking For Banter Over A Bite This Thirsty Thursday
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to r/SoCalR4R by Old_Point5726
14 hours ago
28 [M4F] #SanDiego - Coming to town, will you show me ‘round?
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to r/SoCalR4R by diveanddine
14 hours ago
30 [M4F] #StudioCity - It's spooky season and Casper the Horny Ghost is looking for a Thicc/Voluptuous pillow princess
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