Here I am posting again looking for the thrill of connecting with someone else on a deeper level and because of a frequent lack of attention/quality time. I'm partnered and not looking to change my situation, just to fill in a gap of something flirtatious and deep at the same time that I now miss. During the week and some weekends where things get lonely and repetitive - it would be nice to have someone help break up the monotony. Maybe have someone else out there thinking of me and wondering what I may be doing over the weekend? While I do the same for you, of course.

Me: I'm South Asian 6'0, 181 lbs, lightly tanned, bearded, short hair, and fit. My facial features and complexion appear more Middle Eastern or North African. I take care of my appearance, hygiene, and grooming - you should too. I consider myself a young professional although I'm on the wrong side of 30 </3. Well spoken and well written. Probably think too much. Never have and won't mess with any drugs.

Outside of working out, which is more to cope with stressors and sorrows, I love desserts, coffee, sleepy cuddles, and all animals. My music range is tremendous and I have a few well curated playlists. The intersection of hip hop beats with RnB as well as conscious hip hop are my vibe. The post title is a song in that hiphop rnb genre about wanting a something on the side. I cope with a sad family life and a heartless world with always trying to make other people laugh. I'm very sarcastic, with little to no filter, and once opened up have a propensity for dark humor. I am a bit of a nostalgia junkie as well and like the complex feelings of haunting and sorrow it gives me.

You: Intelligent, can carry a conversation, send and respond to long messages/love notes, into music as a means of connecting with others, not looking to change your situation, like cuddling as much as what it may or may not lead to, able to find time to write here and there, or give a heads up when you'll be busy.

Attraction matters to me - looking for someone with a similar commitment to their appearance as myself, hwp or in better/thinner shape.

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