r/SoCalR4R
Southern California
139,098 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 09/21/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 22 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 22 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 1 month ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 81 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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OddObligation4069
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100%
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2 years
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Yes
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2,829
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884
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Deyganwolf
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100%
Account Age
3 years
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Yes
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Total Karma
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351
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3,337
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ViewCommercial176
Account Strength
50%
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1 week
Verified Email
Yes
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No
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1,879
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1,694
Comment Karma
185
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1Seeb1
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100%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
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No
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1,821
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5,603
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Brownhound_fet
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
3 months
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
48
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28
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20
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ItsAwayaLife
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70%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
306
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242
Comment Karma
64
Profile updated: 1 day ago
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singleandlonelyfuck
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
237
Link Karma
227
Comment Karma
10
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 18 hours ago
2 karma from 1 post
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lifeisawork_3300
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
8 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
48,683
Link Karma
6,583
Comment Karma
41,793
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 17 hours ago
2 karma from 1 post
2 kpp
KingLumpia_
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
8 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
169
Link Karma
158
Comment Karma
11
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
2 karma from 1 post
2 kpp
Cali4fun22
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
144
Link Karma
57
Comment Karma
87
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 6 days ago
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