I hope everyone's weekend is going well! I’m back here as I’m recently single, feeling positive about life, and ready to connect with someone who shares that mindset.
A bit about me:
- I love sailing - both dinghies and keelboats - and do a lot of racing.
- Environmental and social justice issues are really important to me.
- I’m a self-taught software developer with a career I really enjoy.
- I have some nerdy hobbies - big Zelda and Trigun fan, love board games.
- Staying physically and mentally healthy is a priority for me.
I suspect I’m a bit on the spectrum, and although I can mask it well, I communicate differently than most (allistic) people expect and are used to. I say what I mean, try to be direct, and value clear, factual communication to avoid misunderstandings. The double empathy problem speaks a lot to me.
I’m also kinky and identify as a sub. My growth has largely followed this kink identity development model. A dynamic can take a lot of forms for me and really depends on the vibe and my partner's interest, so I'd love to talk more about this.
I’m looking for someone around my age (late 20s to mid 30s) who is monogamous. I'm happy to swap pics early on, and I prefer reddit chat over long messages. I look forward to hearing from you!
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