r/R4R_NJ

Whether you're a poster or a commenter, this a community for adults only. Should your post or comment indicate you're not over the age of 18, you will be banned.

Regardless if your a single male, female, trans, or a couple, you must be clear who you are and who or whom you would like to meet in your post. A title that explains what you hope to achieve with your potential partner is also required.

Examples are the following:

22M4F New Brunswick - Let's go bar hopping.

33F4M Asbury Park - Looking for a guy 33 - 36 to walk the beach with

42/40 MF4MF Hudson County - Couple seeks hangout and hookup with similar aged people.

We have a strict no tolerance policy on users who misrepresent themselves or their intentions to members of this community. Moderators reserve the right to restrict, temporarily ban, or permanently ban users if we have reason to believe you're not honest about your post or comment.

Users are encouraged to report this behavior so long as you can supply proof to back up your claim.
Example: 23M4F is advertised. The 23 male reveals he's 50 years old in text. Screenshot and report. He is banned.

This sub is reserved for people who wish to find friendly, meaningful, or pleasurable connections organically. While we're happy to have anyone who is 18+ participate here, it does not mean it is invitation to astro-turf your business. If your Reddit profile shows that you actively work to promote an OnlyFans account, you will not be allowed to participate in this community.

As a members of this sub, you have the right to some anonymity. Due to how scammers, spammers, and cat-fish have abused the system, accounts that are 30 days old will not be allowed to post or comment.

This can be appealed through a verification process between you and the moderators. This process will be detailed in a post and a rule.

We understand this is inconvenient, but this rule ultimately curtails the worst offenders when it comes to spam and scam posts.

This rule works in tandem with rule #5 in severely reducing the amount of spams and scams. For now, the karma requirement is set to 100. This must be karma earned through regular participation. If your profile reveals participation in begging or farming for karma, you will not be allowed to participate.

We encourage you to positively engage with other members of the community. Posts and comments that can be considered discriminatory or offensive to people based on their race, religion, sexual orientation, or appearance will not be allowed.

You may not use this sub-reddit for the solicitation or coordination of activities that would be categorized as illegal.

Examples would be, selling/trading/buying drugs or sex.

While your post title will tell users your age, location, and who you'd like to meet, a brief description of 3-5 sentences will also be required.

Your goal is to tell potential partners a little about yourself and what you'd like to meet them for. It's okay to state that you're looking for a friend with benefits or a one night stand, but you should at least make this clear to all interested parties.

If you would like to get around the karma or new user requirement, you may reach out to the moderation team and request to be verified.

This rule also extends to users who were restricted or banned due to the application of our anti spam, scam, and cat fish rule. If you feel your restriction or ban was in error, please feel free to appeal it. If you're willing to verify you're a real person to us, this should not be an issue.

There will be submissions or comments that may not be well intentioned toward this community, but are not in direct violation of the posted rules. Moderators reserve the right to look at each scenario on a case by case basis and use their authority to do what it best for the community as a whole.

Any form of harassment or bashing towards the moderation team will not be allowed and will result in a permanent ban.