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r/R4R40Plus

36,785 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 16, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by briser22
27 minutes ago
50+ [M4F] #Midwest - Seeking a FLR
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in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by No-Razzmatazz-3936
6 hours ago
31[M4F] let's make our night better with a call!!!!
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to r/R4R40Plus by SirsRule983
9 hours ago
41 [M4F] #Nashville, TN - Concert Junkie Seeking Plus 1
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in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by shed4000
10 hours ago
44 [M4F] #online Warts and all - Tokyo.
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by dirtyadventures40
10 hours ago
40 [m4f] #nyc - any late night lurker for a free flowing conversation about realities tonight
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in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by Chemical_Chip2905
10 hours ago
46 [M4F] #America -- I have a strong affinity for British and Scottish women
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in America
to r/R4R40Plus by shed4000
10 hours ago
44 [M4F] Warts and all
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to r/R4R40Plus by theincrediblegox
11 hours ago
39 [M4F] Bloomington, Indiana - Seeking Childfree, Religion-Free Plus-size Woman
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in Bloomington, IN
to r/R4R40Plus by Quite_Affable
11 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
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in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by ThatGuy2942
11 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Georgia - Is he not enjoying you correctly?
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in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by Redditaccount9990
12 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Lethbridge #Alberta #Canada - The Pain
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in Lethbridge, Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by Stress-Thick
12 hours ago
39 [M4F] East Coast/Anywhere - Small wins
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to r/R4R40Plus by BiNYCDaddy
13 hours ago
64 [M4F] #NYC “straight” older male seeks young daddy’s girl for ongoing
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in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
14 hours ago
68 [M4F] #NYC/Long Island - Your mother/friends would be mortified If they knew that you were being used by a man that may even be older than your father, but you are over legal age and want to sow your oats before settling down. I am white, tall and can host at a LI motel or travel.
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in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by throwawayfun451
14 hours ago
45 [M4F] #NY #Online chastity beta sub for aspiring or experienced Domme
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in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by themfeelsyo
15 hours ago
32 [M4F] #Westchester
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in Westchester, NY
to r/R4R40Plus by AtMyVeryWurst
16 hours ago
32 [M4F] - Online/USA/Anywhere - Up For Being Brutally Honest?
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to r/R4R40Plus by 1peterpan1
17 hours ago
47 [M4F] #MA #Boston Fortune favors the curious. Lets talk!
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in Boston
to r/R4R40Plus by Adventurous-Bet9747
17 hours ago
36 [M4F] England - How’s about a chat… become friends..go from there.
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to r/R4R40Plus by Illuzionz518
18 hours ago
33[m4f] NY I'm bored you're bored wanna talk?
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in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Public-Lawyer-4247
20 hours ago
42 [ M4F] Hung in Toronto
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to r/R4R40Plus by Head-Phrase-3432
20 hours ago
41 [M4F] #midwest- tall, hardworking, romantic, insatiable, blue eyed single dad looking for a sweet, clingy, genuine, cuddly long term connection/relationship
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in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
22 hours ago
42[m4f] #UK who fancies chatting with a divorced guy on a Friyay late shift at work.
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in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by watch_more_tv40
22 hours ago
41[M4F]- Europe- Hello :)
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