I'm an INFP Slytherin. My birthday is November 22. I have three tattoos, two of them are Grateful Dead images (the Dead are my religion). I'm an extremely introverted hermit whose outlook borders on misanthropy. For the most part, I don't really like other people. I vastly prefer animals. And of animals, I vastly prefer cats. My cat Archie died a few months ago and it was a terrible loss for me. I suppose when I'm done mourning him I will get another cat. I'm an Anglophile, a pluviophile, and a lover of grey, gloomy weather. The sun is my enemy. I work in the writing/publishing industry, and my job is 100% remote. I'm non-religious (atheist) and utterly apolitical (most Deadheads are). I'm horrifically profane and I don't have much use for social restrictions. I am very well-read. I love history (I have a BA in it) and documentaries (historical, science, true crime) and comedy (Louis CK, Jim Jefferies, Ricky Gervais, Dave Chappelle) and Xbox (Prey, Portal, QUBE, Talos Principle, Little Nightmares) and binging shows (British crime, horror, drama) and books (Stephen King, Ken Follett, George RR. Martin, JK Rowling) and old movies from the 40s and Harry Potter and Star Wars and LOTR and traveling and being a homebody/hermit. I LOVE going to restaurants. I LOVE Christmas! I play guitar and piano and used to be in bands, years ago. I love grocery stores and get absolutely giddy in them. I love to cook and I love women who love to cook. I'm at home 90% of the time and I'm just fine with that. I live a very quiet, settled, boringly predictable life, and again, I'm just fine with that. I sowed all my oats as a young man and now I'm ready for domestic peace.

I want a woman who is as introverted as me. Someone who prefers the quiet life. A nerd. I tend to be drawn to shy women who have universes to explore for those who are patient. I want a woman who will be my best friend, my total companion, my confidante, my boo, my lover, my partner in all areas of life. I want a woman who isn't right unless she's being cuddled. I want a woman who needs me and who herself wants to be needed. I want a woman who will take care of me, because I will take care of her. I know, in the end, everyone has to take care of themselves. But when life gets hard or when my tanks are empty or my love language is going overlooked, I want someone with me who will tend to me the way I will tend to her. We have each other's back. We spend a lot of time together. We're always at home, living very domestic, comfortable lives. I want a woman who will do the work of a relationship, because I will do that work. I want a sweet, loving, caring, deep-hearted, woman.