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r/R4R40Plus

36,448 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 1, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by dirtyadventures40
11 minutes ago
40 [M4F] #houston - any late night lurker looking for free flowing conversations tonight
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in Houston, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by cosmicwaveriderss
29 minutes ago
35 [M4F] - Kentucky/Online - Happy Halloween? What did you go as or did you stay in?
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in Kentucky
to r/R4R40Plus by curious_1972
1 hour ago
52 [M4F] #Atlanta - Seeking a Longterm Companion
M4F M4F
in Atlanta, GA
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
1 hour ago
43 [m4f] East Coast/online. Let's go in with no expectations.
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
1 hour ago
68 [M4F] #LongIsland/Queens/Manhattan - You're inexperienced and are sick of guys in your age bracket using you but not giving the pleasure you crave or even teach you new things.
M4F
in LongIsland/Queens/Manhattan
to r/R4R40Plus by ThrowREasyDonut9655
1 hour ago
44 [M4F] Houston --- Sometimes life changing things start out with a simple actions.
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Gloomy_LimaBean
3 hours ago
36 [M4F] DMV Area - Does anyone take dating seriously?
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to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
3 hours ago
42[m4f] #uk divorced dad looking for fem friends to help me start a new chapter in my life.....
M4F
in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by Less-Cartoonist1951
5 hours ago
42[M4F] #Online/anywhere- Educated, good sense of humor, and genuine. Looking for a real and honest connection!
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Tiates
5 hours ago
41 [M4F] US - Seeking Fellow Overthinker for Deep Dives, Bad Jokes, and Occasional Spontaneity
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by AkshualHoomanBeen
6 hours ago
33 [M4F] - #Ontario / Online – Spooky Scary Sexy Friends with TERRIFYING Benefits!!!
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in Ontario, Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by _TormentedTantalus_
7 hours ago
45[M4F] #Online - climbing up from a low point in life, wanting company.
M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by throwawayfun451
7 hours ago
45 [M4F] #LongIsland #NY #Online former Dom turned beta sub for one Domme Mistress
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in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Illuzionz518
9 hours ago
33[m4f] NY hey you yes you are you the ONE?
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in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Adventurous-Bet9747
9 hours ago
36 [M4F] England/Europe - Looking for new friends!
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to r/R4R40Plus by Tiates
10 hours ago
41 [M4F] US - Seeking Fellow Overthinker for Deep Dives, Bad Jokes, and Occasional Spontaneity
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by savory_thing
10 hours ago
58 [M4F] New England: Looking for tricks and treats
M4F M4F
in New England
to r/R4R40Plus by LordToastButter
10 hours ago
44M [m4f] #Baltimore # Maryland, looking for connection admist the chaos
M4F M4F
in Baltimore, MD
to r/R4R40Plus by FPL_Ireland
10 hours ago
36 [M4F] Ireland / Europe / Anywhere. Let's skip to the part where we talk about the things that make us happy, and forget about the real world for a minute. ☔️🍁☕️
M4F M4F
in Ireland
to r/R4R40Plus by Stress-Thick
11 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 39 [M4F] Georgia - For Halloween this year, I'm a slutty concerned citizen doing my civic duty... image
39 [M4F] Georgia - For Halloween this year, I'm a slutty concerned citizen doing my civic duty...
M4F
in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by jcurt2006
12 hours ago
44 [M4F] #Indiana#EST WFH? Let's keep each other company!
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in Indiana
to r/R4R40Plus by _Silver-Fox_
13 hours ago
50 M4F - Some days I amaze myself, other days I put my keys in the fridge
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to r/R4R40Plus by Block5Lot12
14 hours ago
53 [M4F] #PST Silver Fox for younger MILF
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in PST
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
15 hours ago
43 [m4f] East Coast/online. At work and I don't wanna be an adult today
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