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r/R4R40Plus

36,985 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 24, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by Mysterious-Exam-9330
2 hours ago
35 [F4M] #USA A single man in need of companionship, consolation
F4M
in USA
to r/R4R40Plus by CeeCee123456789
8 hours ago
40[F4M] #Oklahoma. Pretend to be my boyfriend and call me... Voice chat only
F4M
in Oklahoma
to r/R4R40Plus by SparkleFoo
10 hours ago
45 [f4m] Midwest I need someone to crush on
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by QuietSolution5493
12 hours ago
34[F4M] Looking for genuine friendship and a long-term serious relationship
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to r/R4R40Plus by Difficult-Design-793
12 hours ago
34 [F4M] - United States/Anywhere - Looking for friends, we have endless topics to talk about, you can try to leave a message
F4M
in United States
to r/R4R40Plus by Mysterious-Exam-9330
12 hours ago
35 [F4M] Looking for a sincere and long-lasting relationship.
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by WonderfulPrior381
15 hours ago
58 [F4M] #Georgia — looking for my person
F4M F4M
in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by Able-Importance164
16 hours ago
41[F4M] #Kansas #online sfw chat
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in Kansas
to r/R4R40Plus by Rocky_Park0211
17 hours ago
48 [F4R] Hungary - First time to have some privacy in a few days
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in Som, Hungary
to r/R4R40Plus by GalaticStarDust
17 hours ago
40 [F4M] #Virginia - Let's actually meet!
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in Virginia
to r/R4R40Plus by ariesthetic4985
18 hours ago
39 [F4M] #Philippines - Lovely to meet you
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in Pines, Philippines
to r/R4R40Plus by Comfort_Not_Speed_50
19 hours ago
50 [F4M] Kent, England
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to r/R4R40Plus by Textual_Alchemist
1 day ago
51[F4M]I love it when you slide into my DMs #Anywhere
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in Anywhere
to r/R4R40Plus by Fit_Temperature3693
1 day ago
[F4M] - 40 - California - Looking for a connection…
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Striking_Distance229
1 day ago
52 [F4M] #Chicago #NWBurbs Looking for that spark
F4M
in Chicago, IL
to r/R4R40Plus by missssssscleo
1 day ago
41 [F4M] #california looking for “the one” smoldering non-trumpers only
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by rmreads
1 day ago
34 [F4R] Ohio / Online - talk about hockey with me
F4R
in Ohio, OH
to r/R4R40Plus by Velvet_Virtue
1 day ago
40 [F4M] US - Butterfly coming home: ready to rest my wings 🦋
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to r/R4R40Plus by WonderfulPrior381
1 day ago
58[F4M] #Georgia-looking for my person
F4M F4M
in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by ColorfulMonsteress
1 day ago
25F [F4M] [F4F] [F4A] #Online #Anywhere #Europe Open to whatever this might lead to
F4A
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by __navigatrix
1 day ago
40[F4M] Online/East Coast US: Looking for a fun and flirty FWB!
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by yearningB_agels3M
1 day ago
26 F4M - Looking for someone to brighten my boring day
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to r/R4R40Plus by Textual_Alchemist
1 day ago
51[F4M]Show me your #multitudes #Midworst #anywhere
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in multitudes
to r/R4R40Plus by PrizeChildhood1087
1 day ago
31 [F4M] Someone to talk to. From PH.
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to r/R4R40Plus by Kitty-Marks
1 day ago
47 [F4R] US, Germany, Anywhere - Fitness enthusiast looking for friendly conversations.
F4R F4R
in Germany