Here to find my person. I like to start out slow and genuinely get to know each other. I'm not in a rush. I am a single mom to two boys (14 & 9), have a good job, car, truck (my labor of love project - 89' F150 with the most perfect patina), own my home and have a black cat. I love laughing and humor. I am very self aware of my faults and strengths and stay in therapy to continue working on myself and growing to be a better me, I also microdose mushies and am 420 friendly. I don't drink but maybe twice a year and I don't smoke cigarettes but I do vape(for now). I love cuddling up and having lazy days watching movies (horror, sci fi, action, documentaries, physiological thrillers), reading/audiobooks, painting/drawing/arts and crafts, outdoor things camping/hiking/kayaking/tubing. The mountains stole my heart and I plan on moving to them in the next 5years (still trying to figure out which area so I've been visiting different mountainous areas on the east coast for the past year trying to narrow it down). I've been told I have very hippie/goth/eccentric vibes. I have lots of tattoos and will continue to get more- I want to be covered, but being a single mom it's taken me a while because what they need comes first. I'm really easy to talk to and down to earth. I have ADHD/ADD and I do have a lot of sensory issues (Misophonia and also the way things feel on my skin) with just a sprinkle of anxiety. I tend to be hit or miss with catching onto sarcasm. I prefer blunt honesty because that's what I give. You'll never have to worry about what is wrong or what I want bc I'm very clear with both and have no problem speaking my mind. I have been single and on my own for about 7 years now so I don't need anyone and I'm not lonely. I'm just looking for someone to share these life experiences with. I'm very much a 50/50 person in a relationship (situational of course like sickness or just not having the best day mentally). I don't believe it should all be on one person. I'd love to match with someone like minded and that has the ability to have a conversation with open honesty.