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r/R4R40Plus

36,448 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 1, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by Rocky_Park0211
3 hours ago
48 [F4R] Hungary - Looking to distract myself from a family gathering
F4R F4R
in Hungary
to r/R4R40Plus by Early-Acanthaceae904
6 hours ago
32 [F4M] I’m tired finding someone for me. Please chat me
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Kam726
7 hours ago
53 f4m Mid Michigan
F4M
in Michigan
to r/R4R40Plus by Dometic-Goddess
7 hours ago
36 [F4M] #Branson/ Online Seduce me?
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in branson
to r/R4R40Plus by Minute_Rooster_9488
15 hours ago
34 [F4M] #Houston #Lily I think my single days will soon be over
F4M
in Houston, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by Silent-Bumblebee5820
16 hours ago
19 [F4M] #Utah - Looking to try out talking with an older guy
F4M F4M
in Utah
to r/R4R40Plus by Rocky_Park0211
16 hours ago
48 [F4R] Hungary - Looking to distract myself from a family gathering
F4R
in Hungary
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
18 hours ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by veronicalake11
1 day ago
37 (F4M) Nevada-Here's hoping
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in Nevada
to r/R4R40Plus by Antique_reader
1 day ago
44F [F4M] #MPLS #Minnesota
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in Minnesota
to r/R4R40Plus by Comfortable_Bell_137
1 day ago
37 [F4R] Southlake TX-very short notice…
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in Southlake, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
1 day ago
35F[F4M]# America, let's chat and see what will happen.
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to r/R4R40Plus by CristinaDarling
1 day ago
39 [F4R] #California- Looking for connection with a flair for the dramatic
F4R F4R
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
1 day ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Wckd-Sml-Angel-Eyes
1 day ago
35 [F4M] #Indiana #Est #Midwest #US Looking for you
F4M
in Indiana
to r/R4R40Plus by JustLurking8675309_
1 day ago
39 [F4M] #Virginia/Anywhere. This post is fueled by redbull and procrastination.
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in Virginia
to r/R4R40Plus by dreams_of_light
2 days ago
48 [F4M] (Online/Anywhere/Western Washington) Are you ready to find refuge together within the tranquil eye of the massive, shadowy tempest we call reality?
F4M
in Washington
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
2 days ago
35F[F4M]#California Area/Find interesting soulmates and build connections
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by spicyy_mystique
2 days ago
46 [F4M] #Online, Lonely nerd looking for new friends
F4M F4M
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #California Ambitious, Fun, and Ready for Real Romance
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by callofpigeons
2 days ago
42 [F4R] Bear with me...
F4R
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
2 days ago
35[F4M] #US online I am looking for friends with whom I can communicate for a long time
F4M F4M
in US
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
2 days ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #California Long-term and sincere contact!
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by SingingRose_
3 days ago
32 [F4R] Tampa FL USA, Seeking partner to start a family with soon
F4R F4R
in Tampa, FL