Hello my lovely lurker ❤️. Clearly, this place is overrun by the depraved, the dishonest and the lost, and maybe that's why you aren't motivated to put yourself out there. It does get a person down so I empathize with your inner struggle. Maybe you think you'll just get buried by the never ending, copy and paste posts of sex addict and adulterers... but it's not true. There are other upstanding lurkers searching for their honest lurkee. One lurker in particular, and that lurker's me (No relation to Dr. Suess). We're out there, scouring for something real and true. I just think that if you're looking for someone special, the only way to really bring them to you faster is to take action. Let's make R4R40Plus great again! Yes, I went there 😄.

Let me tell you a little story. There once was a young woman (I'm goin' third person for this one...but no more rhymes...sorry)...who was very active in life. Physically fit, played soccer, participated in triathlon's, could swim 50 meters underwater without taking a breath, could use a cat as a pillow, play hide and seek with dogs, eat pizza and drink beer, sing in choir's and laugh with her family round the dining room table while kicking their ass at Canasta. Until one day, she was invited on a trip to Kenya... I mean, YEAH, she went, and it was fucking glorious. A trip she'd never forget. Especially because of the fact that the vaccines she had to take for this glorious AF trip gave her some pretty awesome (NOT awesome. Not awesome at all.) long-term side effects. Suddenly, walking around the block became a major undertaking, food and cat pillows became enemy number one because of the gnarly allergic reactions that came with them, family suddenly decided that it was all in her head and that she should see a shrink to make things all better and so that things could just go back to normal. You get the picture. Life brought in a whole new set of FUN for her to try out without warning 😀👍. Little did she know at the time, but this chick was totally up to the mother fudging task because she's badass and doesn't let little things like not being able to breathe when she eats cheese get her down.

Fast forward to now... Dreams-of-Light finds that she loves herself more than she ever has, appreciates her own strength and integrity and finds herself ready to reach out into the void to grab hold of that person who's also ready to grab hold of her. She's ready to find refuge within the tranquil eye of the massive, shadowy tempest we call reality. With someone who is prepared to experience the most legend of love stories.

Okay, I'm done with 3rd person 😆. I'm just going to take the words out of my own mouth from this past post I made several years ago... I tend to get along best with people who are deep thinkers, creative and open minded, witty and dorky and not at ALL proper and traditional, who's world views generally don't align with the mainstream (for instance, those who devour the "news" of CNN and MSNBC, etc, are probably not my people), those who are kind and respectful to those who don't align with their own views, those who strive for patience and tolerance. If you're a hopeless romantic and desire a deep and intense sort of connection, where you can share your secrets and feel challenged to become a better person while still feeling safe and loved and respected then I'd say that we're on the same page :). There's nothing sexier than a man who knows he has flaws and scars but knows his worth and is willing to chase after and take what he deserves in life and in love!

Well...it's that time.... Time to do some weeding! And no, I'm not talking about dandelions. The neighboring bot farm has been encroaching on these hallowed R4R lands and it's all I can do to keep them at bay. So, if you are native to these lands and have read my whole post then please tell me the name of the movie character who said these wise words... "No matter where you go, there you are."

Thanks for stopping by! ❤️