Please read the rules. Ignorance of the rules is not an acceptable reason to break them.
Moderators
Subreddit Rules
The Nature of Your Post Must Be of The Older Man/Younger partner Dynamic
This sub is dedicated to the Older Man/Younger partners relationship. Please see the "Similar Subreddits" sidebar if you are looking for anything different. Furthermore, posts without any context will be removed. No one under 30ish should be posting here looking for younger partners.
Post Title Requirements
Please use the common r4r format. Age followed by a tag, your gender, the number 4 and the gender you're looking for followed by your location. Then an optional short description of what you are looking for.
Example: 45 [M4F] #South Pole - Penguin looking for his own little fish
If your title doesn't look a little like that, it will be removed.
Location, tag, and age are mandatory, online is an acceptable location.
Age Restrictions
This is a 18+ community. That should be enough said, you'd think. Sadly, it's not. If you are found to be posting while under 18 you will be banned. If you're soliciting people under 18 you will be banned and reported to the proper authorities.
No Porn/NSFW
There are many porn subreddits out there you can post to, please do not post them here. This means no nudity in your pictures if you choose to add one. Nudity will get your post removed. Multiple violations will get you banned. Save your genitals for private conversations. Add a face pic, or a body shot. Be sexy if you want. But if I see a dick or Bob Sandvagene it will be removed.
No Spamming or Selling
If you are reposting an ad, please delete the old one when reposting a new one. If you do sell on any platform we ask you use a separate account to post here if you are truly looking for a connection. If your profile has links to "premium services", money exchange apps or paid content you will be banned. This includes sugar lifestyle posts. There's subs dedicated to sugar life. Post there.
No Selling or sugar lifestyle posts.
If you do sell on any platform we ask you use a separate account to post here if you are truly looking for a connection. If your profile has links or a post history of "premium services", onlyfans, money exchange apps or paid content you will be warned or banned depending on my mood. This includes sugar lifestyle posts either here or in your post history. (Yes, we look) There's subs dedicated to sugar life. Post there.
No Personal Info.
Posting your phone number, address, or any social media or chat app info will get your post removed. Continual infractions will see you banned. If you wish to exchange such information with another person, please do it with a private message.
No pointless comments.
Pointless comments are automatically removed unless you have a shit ton of karma. There is no need to comment on a post when you can DM or send a chat to a person directly. Don't tell them to DM you. Don't tell them that you DMed them in a comment. They get a notification, they know. Telling them gives another notification and can be annoying.
No Catfishing or Double Accounts
Any post with reports of a user sending stolen photos will be removed and the user will be banned. Users pretending to be someone else will also be banned. Users posting ads with multiple accounts will have at least one of their accounts banned.
If someone is using your personal image to post here, please message the mods with proof and they will be banned.
No fakes
Any post with reports of a user sending stolen photos will be removed and the user will be banned. Users pretending to be someone else will also be banned. Users posting ads with multiple accounts will have at least one of their accounts banned.
If someone is using your personal image to post here, please message the mods with proof and they will be banned.
Moderator's Discretion
Mods have the right to remove posts for any reason if they feel like something is sketchy. If you feel your post was removed unfairly message the mods. Also, let the mods mod. If you see someone violating the rules, just report it and let the mods deal with it. Don't post calling people out for anything. All that does is make more work.
No spam
If you have a bot like post history that has hundreds of copy/paste posts over a short period of time you and your posts will be removed.
Only one post per 24 hours.
There is a bot to restrict posting to once per day. If you find a way to get around that restriction you will be banned. If you use a new account to get around any bans you will be reported to reddit admins to lose all site access.
Only one post per 72 hours.
There is a bot to restrict posting to once per 72. If you find a way to get around that restriction you will be banned. If you use a new account to get around any bans you will be reported to reddit admins for ban evasion and could possibly lose access to all accounts involved.
Be nice. Don't be rude or a bully or just a plain old dick.
How hard is it to be civil to each other? Don't cause trouble, harass, hit on people, or just be a general jerk in public comments. Your comments will be deleted and you could be muted or banned if it is a regular thing.
Rules are subject to change.
These rules can and will change as more people cause more trouble. Check on them often. Ignorance of the rules is not a good enough excuse to have broken them.
No Ban Evasion
This is against reddit user policy and is taken seriously by reddit admins. If you are banned, be it temporarily or permanently and you use a different account to try to post you will be reported to reddit with all information about all involved accounts and could possibly have them all suspended from reddit as a whole.
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