This post may be updated throughout the month as information becomes available.  

The information of the clubs/events listed below is available via the Clubs Information Wiki Page

Previous month can be seen here:

November Party Highlights

• 2 & 30 November - The Bohemians and Hedonists Party
• 9 November - the Boudoir -Virture and Vice
• 16 November - KRAVE’s 1- year Birthday Bash
• 22 November - Leather and Latex - Melbourne Fetish ball at the Shed16 [kink]
• 22 November - Carnalvale - by Sehnsucht [kink]

November Events - Full List

1 November - Friday 

• Between Friends - Halloween Party - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford  
• Madisons- Swinger House Party 30 - 8pm - 2am (women/couple/men) - recurring weekly - SE Suburbs

2 November - Saturday

• House of Woland - TheBohemians and Hedonists Party information- 9:30pm - 3am (women/couples/non-binary) - Carlton North
• The play Pen - Mia’s Bukkake Party - (men, 19 , under 120kg, tested) - information
• Between Friends - Goth Ball- 8pm- 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm-2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

5 November - Tuesday -Public Holiday

• Shed 16 Taboo Tuesday - 8pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly  - Seaford  

7 November - Thursday 

• The play Pen - Players Party - (men, couples/ women) - from 7pm information - CBD
• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
• Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm (LGBTQI Community) - Collingwood 

8 November - Friday

• Between Friends - Newcomers Night. - 8pm - 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford  

9 November - Saturday

• Virtue and Vice - The Boudoir- Mad Max Dystopia - (open to all) - tickets - 10pm- 1am - Kensington
• the Club - Club Night - (men/women/couple) - 7pm - midnight information Footscray [kink event]
• Nude Bi-Orgy - Spring Bi Event - 8pm-2am (women/couple) - CBD
• Between Friends - MFM- 7pm- 2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm-2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

12 November - Tuesday

• Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly  - Seaford  

14 November - Thursday 

• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
• Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm (LGBTQI Community) - Collingwood 

15 November - Friday

• Between Friends - Under 35 - 8pm - late (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford  

16 November - Saturday

• NSFW Events -Krave - (women/couple) - event tickets - CBD
• The play Pen - Mansion Party- (men, couples/ women) - from 7pm information - Pascoe Vale
• Between Friends -Real people, Real Sex - 8pm - late (women/couple/men) - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm-2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

18 November - Monday

• Wet on Wellington - Swinger’s Pool Party - 8pm -2am (couples/women/ select men) Event information - Collingwood 

19 November - Tuesday

• Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly  - Seaford  

21 November - Thursday 

• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
• Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm (LGBTQI Community) - Collingwood 

22 November - Friday

• Between Friends - A touch of Red -8pm - late (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16/Melbourne Fetish Ball - Leather and Latex - (women/couple/single men) - tickets- Seaford  [kink]
• Sehnsucht - Carnalvale Circus meets BDSM - from 8pm (all welcome) - tickets - Northcote [kink]
• Provocation - Rocky Horror Sci—Fi Fantasy - 9pm - 3am (women/couples) event tickets - CBD [kink]

23 November - Saturday

• Between Friends - A hint of Class, a lot of Naughtiness - 8pm - late (women/couple) - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm-2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

24 November - Sunday

• the Club - Knots of Friction - Day Time Rope Jam - (men/women/couple) - 7pm - midnight tickets Footscray [kink event]

26 November - Tuesday

• Shed 16 - Taboo Tuesday - 7pm - 1am (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly  - Seaford    

28 November - Thursday 

• Shed 16 - Afternoon Desires 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring weekly - Seaford
• Wet on Wellington - Queer AF - from 6:30pm (LGBTQI Community) - Collingwood 

29 November - Friday

• Between Friends - Newcomers Night - 8pm - late (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Shared Secrets Into to Swinging 12pm-7pm (women/couple/single men) - recurring monthly - Seaford  

30 November - Saturday

• House of Woland - TheBohemians and Hedonists Party - Sexy Sci Fi bookings- 9:30pm - 3am (women/couples/non-binary) - Carlton North
• Between Friends - MFM Night - 8pm - late (women/couple/men) - Balaclava
• Shed 16 - Shared Secrets - 8pm-2am (women/couple) - recurring weekly - Seaford

Notable Future Events

• 7 December - Sinful Christmas Party - Naughty by Nature
• 31 December - NYE Naughty Masquerade party - Saints and Sinners

Party Organisers on Reddit 

• Behind Closed Doors Parties
• House of Woland: Bohemians and Hedonist Party
• Knot so Nice: Shibari Events
• Naughty by Nature
• Melbourne Swingers: Shed16, Wet On Wellington, etc.
• NSFW Events: KRAVE, Berlin XXX, etc.
• Primal Instincts
• Purr Party
• Saints& Sinners / Provocation
• Virtue & Vice   

Notes

• If you have additional feedback to provide about a club/event please do so as a comment here and moderators can update the wiki.    
• The list above is not intended as exhaustive as things can change without warning. If you have any changes you want to draw attention to, say it in a comment and we can edit the post through the month.    
• Private informal house parties are not listed unless credible online information is available to warrant it being listed in the wiki or on the monthly list. You may also wish to refer to the RedHotPie/AdultMatchMaker or Fetlife event listing webpages to contact the organiser for further information about these.    
• Social events are marked as [social event] - this means there is no nudity or sex on premises and are events intended as a 'munch' for social drink and social interactions.    
• Kink events are marked as [kink event] - this means they are BDSM/Fetish focused event and may or may not include various levels of nudity and impact play but generally will/may not be sex on premises venues.