Disclaimer: I understand I've come to the swingers sub for this (despite asking to avoid swingers clubs) but this seems like one of the more useful communities in the adult space, while a lot of the other pages are full of persistent single males just trying to get lucky...

So myself (M27) and my partner (F30) have a pretty decent sex life but it's somewhat slowed down over the last year or so.

We've spoken about swinging venues and although I love the idea of being watched/sharing with others, she has expressed that she has concerns about getting jealous or having long-term friendships (intimate connections) developing from it, so she doesn't want to risk it... Which is fine with me.

However, watching a show with a strip club scene recently which perked her interest - she's never been to a strip club and has expressed several times that she'd enjoy being intimate with another female but has never had the chance and doesn't actively pursue it. So I guess I'm now researching some strip clubs/adult styled venues which can be a bit more transactional.

We go, we have a bit of fun and then we leave with nothing more. While I can google and find a hundred different strip joints, I wanted to come to this kinky community and see if anybody has first hand experience and can recommend a good spot for us to visit.

This could be a strip joint, an intimate couples massage, a brothel (I guess) or similar but I guess the key aspect is that it's an in & out job for us to have a bit of fun, experiment and leave it at that... Unless she wants to pursue more of course.