So we are very slowly testing what it is we both want and attending more and more swingers parties. We are both very much into exhibitionism and voyeur and very comfortable surrounded by a crowd fucking.

We found that sex next to a couple is super hot, and grabbing a hand, touching legs and being skin to skin with others really turn us on.

We are both down for kissing other people but we are not yet sure about other people’s genital getting involved. Several factors are at play including allergies to latex, concerns about STD risks rising the more we do, and ultimately we think that it’s safer to slowly and gradually test our boundaries than jump into it.

I understand that attending swingers party people will have certain expectations. I don’t want to waste anybody’s time and I’m concerned the veterans will see us as time wasters.

How likely are we to meet like minded people who want to play at the edge of swinging? We would love to make a connection as in being able to have a conversation, feel the spark, dance together, hold hands and fuck next to each other and wish people a good night.

I’m ok if that’s not everyone’s thing, just wandering if there’s enough of us to attempt to connect.