We're a 24M/22F couple. I'm heteroflex/bicurious and she is bisexual.
We're looking to start exploring the lifestyle and we would both prefer to play with an individual before exploring with other couples. Given my bicuriousity (and her attraction to men) we feel that it would be a good start exploring with a single guy.
We're ideally looking for someone that we can hang out with as friends in order to make the experience in the bedroom more enjoyable.
We have tried Feeld and even Reddit in the past, and it has been difficult sifting through the creeps. I understand that is the nature of this lifestyle when looking for single men, but I was just curious if there's a better way to get around that. Any recommendations or suggestions?
Thank you in advance.
Have you tried your luck at vetted MMF events? Between friends are doing a fair few which I've heard good things about. Although it's not my partner's and my preference I've heard of a lot of success when single men are vetted prior to attending :))
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yeah I agree. A bit of a lose-lose type setup. I think you'd definitely be onto something if you attended couples events with a single woman friend. My parter and I have ongoing friendships with "single guys" who regularly attend events with a single woman friend (labels are hard but you get the idea of what I'm trying to say here haha!).
I think also if you attend events with a single woman "partner" as a single guy it can show other couples and single women that you have women in your life who know, trust & can vouch for you!