So I have found my comfort zone in two specific spaces: Themed parties and completely nude parties. Both are perfectly fitting my love of a good fun costume/ creative style or exhibitionist attitude.

I’m trying to find what to wear for the more dancing/ club events which we want to attend to this year.

For context we haven’t been to any of those but I am talking about the NSFW Krave in a fortnight for which we have tickets to, and the saints and sinner balls which we haven’t been to.

Looking at galleries of photos we can get a good sense of what the F-presenting side of the guests will be wearing but I’m struggling to get a good sense for the more M-presenting guests.

I am confident to wear my kink outfit but this doesn’t seem to be the crowd, stylish shirt looks perhaps like too much clothing and black underwear with no branding is a little bit too boring.

Would anyone with more experience in this kind of event be so kind to direct me to a description/ Pinterest wall or share anything with us to help me build my confidence to wear something absolutely Fabulous?

After all feeling confident and comfortable will only result in a better mood and I promise to bring my contagious smile and share the fun with everyone.

Diversity of answers is expected and welcomed!

Ps: I have my black light body paint ready to complete the outfit