It may have taken a while to get here, and now that we are I wonder why the hell it took so long! Especially since it seems to have had so many benefits to our relationship and sex life.
I think I'm getting more sex this week than I have in the last year haha but its other things. I feel like I appreciate him more, and I feel more appreciated in other areas of the relationship.
Is this what others have experienced?
We often live with a lot of biases, desires, fears and preconceived notions in our heads about sex, its value to us, how we identify with sex.
Swinging has been a process that has required us to be more open and intentional about exploring all those things, learning about ourselves and each other. The communication needed, the trust, the resilience are all things that have grown and made our relationship much stronger.
I always say that swinging can make a strong relationship stronger, but will speed up the dismantling of a fragile relationship.
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perhaps less about breaking down inhibitions, and more about doing something difficult together and growing because of it