So after 11 years marriage, my wife (F37) and I (M39) have agreed that we want to broaden our sexual horizons. We have a great relationship and healthy sex life, but love the thought of watching others/being watched, FFM 3some and potentially swinging down the track once we are comfortable. I know that must be pretty tame for veterans in this scene, but it’s all new for us so we want to take it slow. My question is, where is the best venue for newbies to meet like-minded people, learn a bit more about the community and dip our toe into a play one evening? Shed 16 has come up, but is that basically like once you walk in clothes are off and it’s on? If so, that sounds really overwhelming, so perhaps the Between Friends would be easier because it seems like the first level is just like a normal bar? Sorry if I’m way off the mark with these descriptions, we really do respect this community and are keen to explore it and hopefully meet some amazing people. So any advice would be appreciated.