You know the Roman Empire trend? I don’t so I did the next thing most people my age will do - search it online. According to Today Online, it is a wildly popular trend that has spurred many women, as well as non-binary people, to ponder about their own “Roman Empire”, loosely defined by The New York Times as “the topics one contemplates in private more than anyone realises”.

With that information, I asked myself “What is my nsfw Roman Empire?”

Without a doubt, the only answer is making out/sex with a beautiful woman in front of my trusted male fwb. Why? I like women, I love pleasuring him, and he finds pleasure in thinking about me with other women. So I thought again, why not make it a reality?

I have many things in my mind that I’d like to try or do more - scissoring, girly 69, and using a double-ended dildo. I own and have used a strap-on once, I’d like to do it again.

About me: 35 yr old, 5’3, Asian single lady. Full time work and home life, part-time (and fairly discreet) nsfw life. I’m pretty much sexually satisfied by a good-looking bachelor but sometimes (or maybe a lot of times) think about women. I have talked about this fantasy with him too many times that the fantasy has now become me with a woman while he’s watching. Is that too much to ask?

What I offer: A safe space for us to explore.

What I’m looking for: Age 20 please. I usually go for the girl-next-door type, but I honestly think the most important thing is our connection and comfortability with the fact that someone will be watching us. It doesn’t matter if you’re single or partnered (he could watch too) but the play will be between us.

If you think this is you, or something you’d like to try at least once, then shoot me a message. I have some pics in my profile that you can check out. Looking forward to hearing from you. xx