So my partner and I have been exploring open play sessions more in a cuck tease kind of situation with her sending me surprise videos of her playing with others. We still have the fantasy of being able to flip the table and return the favour back to her but obviously with the nature of the beast it’s a lot easier for her to find guys than for me to find another woman, any tips or tricks to find women who may be keen to join in, I’ve found explaining the whole situation/kink generally turns people off/away but it’s something we need to do to be 100% transparent.
That's something that we've enjoyed and have a good deal of experience with. . We've been fortunate to play both ways - but, you're right, finding guys has been easier.
In our case it was a slow burn, first recording now and again with a couple together, second sending each other clips of threesomes (with the same couple, just give each other the chance to be spoilt), then eventually in 1:1's.
It's ultimately a trust thing, first and foremost, your partners have to believe that everything will stay private -and we've found that if you talk through and show how you keep your naughty images safe (password protected folders, hidden folders, etc.) that can help. Also showing potential partners some examples of anonymous images, so they understand exactly what they woudl look like helps.
Keep being upfront and transparent, give lots of details about how you keep things private, show anonymous examples and make sure they know what's happening every step of the way
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never had an issue with that