This one is for all the couples of Melbourne swingers who post looking for guys.
What’s it like? I’d imagine you get lots and lots of messages when ever you post. What do you look for when when guys reach out. What are the do’s and the dont’s.
As a single male I’m curious as to what I can be doing better to start conversations with couples when they are looking. When I do message couples I find I struggle to even get a response. Is it something I’m doing or is it just the pure volume couples are getting?
Be clear about why you want to play with a couple, if it’s just about getting off then you’re not going to get far. Clear fantasies you want to help with and why.
Find ways to standout, whether it’s clear genuine photos or respectfully engaging, you need to have something that would make them want to engage with you over the pool of guys also looking.
Best way of all is to demonstrate through action. Meet a couple, blow their mind and have them vouch for you, they will get others listening
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You’re welcome, yes, a short but clear introduction with the invitation for them to continue to escalate if you catch their fancy