Hey everyone,
Writing to ask for advice from the more experienced people on here.
I (23M) met a couple (40MF) via an online platform and after a few days of talking to each other, we met up for a coffee. The chat went quite well. All three of us are very comfortable with each other. We have a second meet up planned with the intention of playing.
Now, I haven't had any sexual experiences before. The couple is aware and they are comfortable with this.
Obviously we have been communicating about our boundaries, safe sex, after care, what each of our roles are etc.
My questions for those that are more experienced are,
what else do I need to communicate with them?
(this is a bit of a stupid question ->) Do I need to bring a little gift or something when I meet them?
What else should I keep in mind during our meet?
Any other general advice is much appreciated as well.
Cheers.
If you're going over to their place a bottle of wine is never a bad idea.
Aside from that some advice that's come to help me a lot is to get out of my own head and to stop dwelling on a sexual event several days out. It's easy for overthinkers like me to either over anticipate or over speculate. My advice would be to not think about it too much in the leadup, go with the flow and above all else try to enjoy yourself. Keep everything fun and lighthearted rather than super serious!! Good luck
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