As a couple looking for a couple on RHP, here are some profile red flags that we use as our filter.

1. No pictures of him. If only she is displayed you're not serious about fmfm.

2. They are FWBs not married/boyfriend and girlfriend. If they're not a genuine couple they are exploiting the scene for the easy sex pickups and will insist on quick bang in separate rooms. Horrible feeling of being used.

3. They are late 40 something, very much look it, but seeking 20 somethings. This is an indicator of mental problems.

4. Open to trans etc but claiming to be straight. Suggests that he is not.

5. Seeking multiple man gangbangs etc. Not judging anyone but turns off my wife big time.

6. They will immediately block/ reject if you're a single male. If they're looking for a couple on couple then why the hostility to men if it says in their profile they are opne to men? Suggests they are not open to fmfm as they claim, real motive is FF while the men watch. Boring, no thanks.

7. Angry tone in profile with a long list of reasons why they will reject you or comes with list of terms and conditions like it's an employment contract. Sign of insecurity/inflated ego.

8. They message you as soon as you look at their profile and immediately ask for pics. Too aggressive.

9. The only qualities they look for in a man is the size of his cock. If that's her entire metric for men, imagine what he looks like.

10. They haven't bothered writing anything, except looking for fun or like minded couples. Either it's a fake profile or they're just testing the waters. Move on.

Interested in others thoughts.